Sunday, February 5, 2012

Is it a good idea to let your boss know her boyfriend sent you roses signed "your secret admirer"?

My friend received roses from a secret admirer. A few weeks later, her supervisor told her that she was going to break up with her boyfriend because she found a statement for 1-800-flowers, and somehow found out that he sent red roses to someone, but stayed w/ him. She confronted her boyfriend who at first told her he sent them to his mom whom she then called. His mom said she never receive flowers, so she continued to question him and he finally told her that he sent them to a girl he met with only a couple of time who didn't mean anything to him... blah blah blah. Well, he had met my friend only a few times. He works as a loan officer that can do credit checks, and as a favor, offered to get my friends credit score since she was looking for a car, which required her to give him her home address + other info. She got the flower at the same time they were delivered to this anonymous girl. She and I are 99% sure he's who sent the roses. She feels bad for her boss; should she say somethi

Is it a good idea to let your boss know her boyfriend sent you roses signed "your secret admirer"?
If you don't want to keep your job because women have a tendency to find blame with anyone except their cheating spouse, boyfriend, etc. She will resent you at the very least.

And if he signed it 'secret admirer' how did you know it was from him?

Just separate yourself from the entire situation. Believe me, if he sent you flowers behind her back, this isn't a first. So he will get caught and you can keep your job.
Reply:not unless she wants to lose her job. I wouldn't say anything


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