i met this girl in college 2 years ago, At that time i had a big crush on her and I still do, so i sent flowers on her birthday two years ago. , but i dint have my name on them she called me and thanked me for the flowers at that time, But nothing serious happened between us, we took a few courses together after we met, Recently she told me that she thinks i am cute, and that she had a crush on me the first day of class but she had to stop after learning that i was a Muslim. Couple day ago i was online and she asked me when my birthday was, i told her that it passed, and she asked me if i was going to send her flowers for her birthday, I was like how about red roses this time, and she told me that she likes Pink roses. .And she invited me to her b-day party which was yesterday, so I went and she was there with 3 other girls no boys, she was nice to me, then after the club, I was driving home and I text messaged her “saying text me when you get home please”. Then she responded an hour later saying that “I am home, thank you for being there, Gosh too bad we are different religions otherwise I would date u”. I didn’t ask her for a date or anything. Is she trying to tell me something? This was the only time we actually hung out, out of class and I had not seen her in a while. But we have always been keeping in touch over msn. What should i do? Her roses will be delivered today with a message saying
“I saw these roses and, even though they were beautiful, nothing can compare to the beauty i see in you”. Was sending the roses a mistake? Is she telling me to stay away from her by getting religion involved? I didn’t ask her if she would like to date me.
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Well - she is defiantly interested in you. Are you still interested in her? Do you want to go out with her?
There is a lot of misinformation about Islam - and given all the news coverage of the radicals (who make up a small % of the muslim population) it's understandable. Hey- if the only news coverage of christans was the radicals who blow up abortion clinics you'd think all christians were nutz too.
If you are interested in her and a difference in religions is not a problem for you - then ask her to have coffee or something. Bring up the subject of your religion. Let her ask questions about it and your views.
Personally, I'm Catholic - I'd have no trouble dating a muslim but don't expect me to convert or wear a head scarf. Likewise, I'd not expect him to become Christian. It would just take a lot of compromise on both our parts.
I had a friend who was a southern baptist - she had very staunch views - would not consider dating a catholic unless he was willing to convert if they got married. She got it stuck in her head that when she got married she wanted - her, her husband and the kids all in the same pew together at her southern baptist church. Needless to say -my advice to her was to only date men she met in church. Most folks are not willing to convert.
A difference in religions is a huge thing to overcome. If she can't then you just have to write it off as it's just not meant to be.
Reply:she will love them but i don't understand why the only reason she won't date you is because of your religion.Times are different now.if you love someone you love them no matter what...........
Reply:tht was really sweet.. it wasnt a mistake at all she will love them i promise
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Thursday, February 9, 2012
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