I fell for a girl while on vacation. It's been a few days, I still really like her, but I am starting to realize that it's pointless because we live so far apart. I just got up, and saw that she's been calling my phone...alot of me realizes how pointless this is, so I don't want to call her back. On the other hand, while I was with her, I fell so hard for her that I had a bouquet of flowers to be delivered to her a few days from now; at the time I knew I would miss her. Now I feel incredibly bad because I still have feelings for her, but I know it's pointless, meanwhile I don' t know how seriously she's taking it, but I am guessing by the number of missed calls more seriously than me. What to do?
What am I suppose to do with this girl?
Tell her what you told us. I know you don't want to hurt her feelins, but if you know in your heart that it isn't going to work then you need to tell her now, before you both get hurt even more. Just think you will always have the summer vacation memory and that can be enough. Just be nice, which I'm sure you will be and be honest. Good Luck!
Reply:I knew this wud happen if shez a emotional girl she'd get mighty serious and with the details u've provided hmmm it's gone bad for her already. I say she took a hard fall for u rather then u taking that hard fall.
I think she saw some positive sign emanating from ur actions and she indeed has fallen in love with u coz no plain friend will give so many calls. U sent her flowers to show ur feelings for her and sending flowers is a serious business chigga I know coz if I liked a guy who sent me flowers I sure wud know how he feels bout me and how serious it is when u do really send flowers and mean it.
All u can do is talk to her now and tell her how things are maybe explain to her of how the distance is coming inbetween ur relation, if u can then I'd still say ask her if she can try getting a job in ur country, can she try? or can u help? This is only possible if u want her to be besides u. If u can't think of anything like this then be open and explain to her the complications the relation has. If shez been calling u so often take it shez taken it quite seriously as mentioned earlier.
Tell her that u and her remain friends and maybe in time things can sort out by themselves. But as far as u can try to be honest with her and open about ur feelings talk it out with her so that u don't keep her in darkness and she'd not get hurt more so. I fear she will but in time prolly she'd overcome even u wud. I seriously hope things can work out for both of u and if u can try to get her out of Asia then do so but for doing that u ought to be serious bout her to that extent.
Reply:Keep in connect with her, who knows what may happen. you have the Internet as well as the telephone to keep in contact. maybe she will eventually move to where you are.
Reply:Talk to her knothead,at least u will part as freinds.u never
know u might meet again,at least u might still be able
to talk...
Reply:First of all you must have realized how much you really do like her, since you have asked for advice on what to do. It may not be as pointless as you might think since she is calling several times a day for you. The best advice I can give you is to call her back and just talk as friends. See where it goes from there. You never know what will happen until you try. Good Luck!!!
Reply:You mention that it is pointless. Why should living so far apart automatically mean that there can be no relationship for the both of you.
Maybe I should ask....does she live in the next town or on the next continent?
Reply:Ditch your gloomy, this-can't-work thoughts and date her.
Reply:If you really love then distant does not matter. If it is just for pleasure, then it will not work out.
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Wednesday, February 1, 2012
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