Monday, January 30, 2012

What can I send my girlfriend at work to surprise her?

I need some ideas of something I can have delivered to my girlfriend while she is at work. I don't want to send flowers or candy (I've done that), but something that is fun to let her know I'm thinking about her. There is no special occasion, this is a "just because" type of thing. Thanks!

What can I send my girlfriend at work to surprise her?
balloons %26amp; stuff toy



her favorite food w/ a note that you're thinking of her
Reply:Send her pizza or if you have a Mazzio's in your area they will deliver sandwhiches! Sometime's flower shops have gifts like candles and such get something like that sent her, Your so romantic! Good luck
Reply:why dont you cater some food to her...she'll be surprised
Reply:what about a stuff animal holding card that says "I miss you much" that way she knows you are thinking about her. what about a cute pillow with her fav animal on it. etc.
Reply:You should show up with a picnic basket all packed with goodies and tell you your taking her to the park for lunch. Don't forget the chocolate sauce and strawberries.


Hydroponic Gardening?

WHen using a top drip feed system how often do you set the pump to deliver the water/nutrients up to the top of the plant, and is it possible to drown them, over feed them if they are in an expanded clay pellet medium? How often for each stage, seedling, vegetative, and flowering? Using Flora Series Nutes! Thanks

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Reply:big question is what plant are you growing .... seems like the funky ganja ??? lol ... if so ... u cant really over feed or drown it because the trip system aerates the water so its rich in co2 and plants love that either threw roots or leaves ... during the day u can feed all day or set it up so it feed only 3 times a day for 30 mins a time ... preferably all watering's should be done when lights come on so the plant can use and absorb all the nutrients threw out the day ..(no night feedings!!!) the plant rests at night it sleeps just like us ... and with the flora series nutes id do 50% more nutes then what is on the bottle depending on light ...(50% more if u have 600w light.....25% more if 250w .......under floro tubes stay at what is recommended by general hydro... hope this helps

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Flowerbed question...?

How deep should the soil be for a flowerbed? 6 inches? 12 inches?



I'm planning to have topsoil delivered for my Perennial flower seedlings that will be 1 ft to 4 ft tall when mature.



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Flowerbed question...?
As long as you work the existing soil before you add the top soil, six inches should be fine. If not, the plants' root systems will grow out instead of down. While working the existing soil, amend it with manure, composted material, such as humus, or a little sand. You can also add peat moss, but make sure it is WET before you add it. When adding organic matter to planting beds or gardens, add at least 2 inches on top of the bed and work in evenly to a depth of 4 to 6 inches.
Reply:I would say a minimum of 12 inches, 18-24 would be better. The roots of some large perennials can go pretty deep. The previous owners of my house did the flower bed out front, and it is only 12 inches or so deep....not much to work with when you are planting larger plants, and the soil underneath is packed clay. I have noticed that my spring bulbs don't do well in this bed either. You may want to have a soil test done on your topsoil to see what it needs, some are not so great....you aren't getting black dirt are you? That stuff is usually mucky and has little nutrition. If you don't have access to a soil test, be sure to fertilize when you plant.
Reply:I agree with Ginny, the deeper the better. The more depth you have that is worked and nurtured the less the need to water and fertilise. Work in a lot of humus to your topsoil to give it some body. Topsoil on its own is not particularly nutritious and tends to be quite dry and heavy.
Reply:Is this going to be a raised bed? I would say 12 inches.



Remember topsoil is not all that good in regard to fertilizer so you will have to add some good soil like black gold when you plant your flowers


Can anyone help me please?

can anyone tell me where i can find yellow frangipani flowers florist in august to be delivered to a friend no matter where money no object.

Can anyone help me please?
Almost any florist should be able to do it for you... If they don't have frangipani, they're usually able to order them in or source them for you, so that shouldn't be a problem.



I would go through a bigger company like FTD or something, because they can deliver worldwide.

I used them all the time to have flowers delivered to my dad in California. ( I live in Australia) I did it all online btw.... and they were fantastic about showing me the plants or flowers that they were delivering.



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Reply:Any florist should be able to get them for you.


From a woman's standpoint what would you like for your man to do to show you that he honestly loves you ?

My friend has fallen in love with a woman he met on a summer beach trip with the guys, it started out as just out on the town fun and a few drinks and laughs after 6 months of dating he realized they were falling in love but he told her things about himself that wasn't true. Now that he is in love with her he has told her the truth about his background, education(such as the fact that he has no college degree as he told her in the beginning), now she wants him to prove that he is honest and serious about the relationship and ask him what he is going to do to make her feel better about the situation so she can either move forward with him or break it off...he is a mess !!!! HELP...lol He has started out with flowers being delivered every day for a week with a poem attached....any other ideas that we can come up with ??? She feels like she has been played, he realized how wrong and deceiving it was and wished he had told her months back but didn't want to loose her.

From a woman's standpoint what would you like for your man to do to show you that he honestly loves you ?
Really he dug his own grave with this one...This is a lesson learned, the truth is much easier than a lie...He will never be able to prove to her he is true...In the back of her head she will aways be wondering....
Reply:I think its a little late now. Women never really forgive for stuff like that. It's a lost cause...
Reply:I feel for both of them, gifts aren't going to regain her trust. He just needs to not lie anymore. Time will heal her wounds. Sincerity with his words and letting her know all of the time that she is special is all he can do. Best of blessings to them.



It's actually kind-of refreshing to hear a women is not just sitting back believing everything a man says because she"loves him". I am so sick of that
Reply:ofcourse man should do everything that makes relationship more stronger.
Reply:he has to talk to her. go to her and say that at first he was intimidated by her. he thought that she would think that he wasnt good enough for her so he lied. but now that he's really gotten to know her he doesnt feel that way anymore. he wants an honest relationship with her. tell her that all he wanted was a chance with her and he paniced when he thought that she wouldnt like him because of his background


What kind of gift was that?

What's up with a 2 minute hummer with no happy ending and a heart shaped brownie? I'd already given her the clothes, card, chocolate, and the flowers get delivered later. Know I have a major case of blue b*lls.

What kind of gift was that?
Whack on, Whack off... Whack on Whack off.... THE WHACKER.





Maybe some of us girls could lend you a hand... or some big round firm titties... or a hot wet pussy... or a nice tight ***.... among other things.
Reply:A very bad one I suppose? Take everything away, duh!
Reply:You think you got it bad, she sent me ROSES yesterday yes roses, and no hummer at all. Maybe she just trying to keep you hot and bothered all day.



But hey I got even for the roses.
Reply:boo hoo hoo. Cant buy her
Reply:hmmmmm, Quix might have something there....maybe the grand finale is for later! Keep those blue balls warm big guy, the best is yet to come.........



Happy Valentines Day



*big kisses*
Reply:what a wh*re she is! come down south baby i can suck like there's no tomorrow!



HAPPY EFFING VALENTINE'S DAY! *WINK*
Reply:go get ya a hooker
Reply:If you wanted professional services for your gifts, you should have go to a different source.



If you were my significant other and gave me gifts with the expectation that I would "pay" for them you would be leaving my space with the clothes around your neck, the card in shreds in your hair and the chocolate up your wazoo. The flowers would be redirected to the nearest funeral home. Arrogant "burro."
Reply:SUCKS TO BE YOU...
Reply:2 minutes huh? If she could hum "Stairway to Heaven" in it's entirety would there be a happy ending??? You know that song has alot of octaves in it and it's a long song. LoL!
Reply:aww im sorry come here ill give you a better gift and that is me *wink*
Reply:Well, sounds like you got screwed... In a very non-literal way.
Reply:What kind of a using ********* are you with?

I would have given you the full four minutes, and the happy ending.....well as long as you paid for my lunch today anyway!

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Can I refuse a flower shipment when the fed ex truck delivers?

My EX b/f cheated. Now he is sending red roses which I do not want. Can I refuse to accept them when the fed EX truck arrives?

what will happen to the roses? Will he get a refund.? I simply do not want them

Can I refuse a flower shipment when the fed ex truck delivers?
yeah...i wouldnt accept them either...when they deliver them just simply tell them the guy is a creap and to bring them back. he will probably have to still pay for them, but who really cares. good for you. stand strong :)
Reply:Haha, yes, I'd take them from the delivery guys' hands and cut them all up and throw it in the backyard/woods, if he calls to ask if u like them I'd tell him "well I enjoyed tearing them all up and tossing them out like u did my heart, but nice try anyways" then hang up.



But I don't think he'd get a refund if you simply sent them back they will just show up at his doorstep and he'd probably be pretty pissed off that u didn't accept them.....



Anyways sorry to hear about the dumbass, keep it classy and do not let his weakness tear you down.....
Reply:drop em off at a hospital and tell them to give it to someone that would want them, thats what i did when i got get well flowers in a hospital out of state when i got my appendix removed but didnt want to take them with me on the plane back to my home state
Reply:take the roses the go throw them all over his lawn he will get the picture and be out of money too
Reply:Yes, you can refuse them. Just tell them return to sender. They'll return to him and he loses postage money he paid but gets the flowers back. Good luck!


I need to buy a gift for my friends 21st birthaday, What can i get her?

I need the gift to be delivered to her house on a specific day, NOT FLOWERS as they are boring, but something maybe fun, sexy, kinky? something that will make her laugh as i wont be in the country and a birthday that she will remember for life! I was thinking of a stripper? What do you think?

I need to buy a gift for my friends 21st birthaday, What can i get her?
A Stripper, she will always REMEMBER that, ROFL!!!
Reply:A stripper with a vibrator

and a note saying that I would love to take care of this myself but here's something to keep you company until I get back
Reply:Nice gold jewellery-earrings or necklace. Can't go wrong with that. Don't do kinky things for a 21st.
Reply:You're kidding? Nah have someone deliver something special like a necklace or a bracelet.



'Cos the other stuff won't go down as well with her as it will with you...trust me.
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Reply:How about a necklace?

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Reply:i think u should send someone to do like a little show (possibly a funny one so she cant stop laughin) like singin or somethin in front of her house n at the end the singers be like this is from so n so.... shell remember that forever!


1800Flowers.com??

Has anyone ever used this?? If so, what do you think about it? Did your flowers get delivered in good shape? Im planning on ordering my mom some flowers for mothers day, because our flower shop in town doesnt have much of a selection, and cute things like this website does! Tell me about your experience with this one! Thanks!!

1800Flowers.com??
Yes, i have used them with success, make sure you do an online promo code search, since they are always running some sort of special/


Has anyone used these flower vendors?

I plan on using wholsesale flowers for our wedding and I was wondering if anyone has used either of the vendors below?



GROWERS BOX

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or



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What was your experience like? Did they deliver on time? were the flowers in good condition? Did they last?

Any feedback is helpful. Thanks in advance!

Has anyone used these flower vendors?
My ex boss used the Growers Box and she had a good experience with them. Good luck
Reply:Don't know about those but I did a family wedding last weekend and the brides mom ordered all the flowers from florabundance and I was very pleased with what I was working with, www.florabundance.com
Reply:i used danielsons flowers and it was cheap i spent 100.00 and they delivered on time. this is in Nebraska.
Reply:I've heard that growers bax is generally good. My Aunt used them and she didn't have any complaints

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How do I get my girl back?

well my girlfriend broke up with me last week, she has said that she needs time on her own. The problem with this is that just the week before she said its been the best year we have been together and we share so much. but she has also been making comments the last few weeks about the duration of our relationship, its been 3 1/2 years come august. i really love this girl and i honestly thought she was the one for me, she still says she is in love with me and there could be no one else but me if she wanted to date again but she simply needs time on her own. since she left me ive been a wreck, cant get any sleep, eat, be bothered to do anything at all. But ive tried my best to get her to want me by buying her flowers and delivering them to her door with a 'i miss you' card saying how much i lover her, tried talking to her but wont listen. i can only think of singing a love song to her just so i can get 1 date with her. please give me your thoughts, she is far too special to loose!

How do I get my girl back?
Hmm ... I'm really sorry. Here are a couple of things you might try. Don't beg, just be sincere. If you are in love with this woman tell her so, ask her if there is something that you did that offended her, or could change in your relationship. Tell her you respect her need for space. Consider the fact that there might be the smallest possibility that she is doing this to get you to realize how much you need her, and she's hoping you'll see that. 3 1/2 years is a long time did you ever talk about getting married? Maybe she is just tired of waiting. If you aren't that old maybe she just feels like she needs to experience life on her own for a while. If she still talks to you ask her hows she's doing, write her letters, show you are interested in what she has to say, if she's the right person for you, God will take care of the rest. Good Luck!


What do I do if karma is stalking me?

I read my astrological prediction this morning and it said I need to shake my body more in the shower.



At lunch I opened my fortune cookie and it asked me what I am doing later.



I keep getting flowers mis-delivered to my address all the time.



I accidently bumped someone in traffic and they came out mad but suddenly started apologizing and saying it was their fault and left.

What do I do if karma is stalking me?
The subject of the Bhagavad-gita entails the comprehension of five basic truths

1. Isvara-the supreme controller,

2. Jivas -the controlled living entities.

3. Prakrti-the material nature

4. Kala- time (the duration of existence of the whole universe or the manifestation of material nature)

5. karma (activity) are also discussed.



The cosmic manifestation is full of different activities. All living entities are engaged in different activities. From Bhagavad-gita we must learn what God is, what the living entities are, what prakrti is, what the cosmic manifestation is, how it is controlled by time, and what the activities of the living entities are.



KARMA

The effects of karma may be very old indeed. We are suffering or enjoying the results of our activities from time immemorial, but we can change the results of our karma, or our activity, and this change depends on the perfection of our knowledge. We are engaged in various activities. Undoubtedly we do not know what sort of activities we should adopt to gain relief from the actions and reactions of all these activities, but this is also explained in the Bhagavad-gita.



Material nature itself is constituted by three qualities: the mode of goodness, the mode of passion and the mode of ignorance. Above these modes there is eternal time, and by a combination of these modes of nature and under the control and purview of eternal time there are activities, which are called karma. These activities are being carried out from time immemorial, and we are suffering or enjoying the fruits of our activities. For instance, suppose I am a businessman and have worked very hard with intelligence and have amassed a great bank balance. Then I am an enjoyer. But then say I have lost all my money in business; then I am a sufferer. Similarly, in every field of life we enjoy the results of our work, or we suffer the results. This is called karma.



The living entity forgets what to do. First of all he makes a determination to act in a certain way, and then he is entangled in the actions and reactions of his own karma. After giving up one type of body, he enters another type of body, as we take off and put on clothes. As the soul thus migrates, he suffers the actions and reactions of his past activities. These activities can be changed when the living being is in the mode of goodness, in sanity, and understands what sort of activities he should adopt. If he does so, then all the actions and reactions of his past activities can be changed. Consequently, karma is not eternal. Therefore we stated that of the five items (isvara, jiva, prakrti, time and karma) four are eternal, whereas karma is not eternal.



Excerpts from the Introduction to Bhagavad-gita-as-it-is

by A.C.Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada,

Founder-Acharya of ISKCON

(International Society for Krishna Consciousness)
Reply:Sounds like Karma is "stalking" you in a good way. Just let it flow and return some good! It may be that someone is needing to meet you.....maybe the stranger that you bumped in to.
Reply:Get a restraining order and a Karmic repellent!
Reply:??? Karma can not possible STALK

Karma is a reaction to an action. Not one of these things you've said has anything to do with karma.


Is this good enough for valentines day? Any suggestion welcome?

We been together for half a year, haven't said I love you yet and we are both college students in our early 20's.



She has work till 5 that day so I plan to have a florist company like 1800 flowers to deliver her roses (not red ones). Afterwards I would pick her up and take her to dinner at a restaurant she mentioned and wanted to try before. I was also thinking of buying some high heel shoes she liked as a present from Aldo.



What do you girls think? Is this good enough?

Is this good enough for valentines day? Any suggestion welcome?
Yes i think that is plenty. All we are really expecting are flowers. And if you're having flowers delivered to her work, that is the BEST! She will love it. Dinner, flowers, shoes, what else does a girl want?
Reply:More than enough! The roses with a card is good. Dinner with a present is great. If you aren't sending red roses, pink or multi color is best. Roses all have meanings, so ask your flourist so you don't send the wrong message. Yellow means "I'm sorry", Red is for passion, Pink for innocence, etc. Multi is the best bet if you aren't ready for red.


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What is the worlds best florist with same or next day delivery to Shoalhaven, NSW AU?

If you think you know of anything sweet and romantic that could be delivered - as nice or nicer than flowers - PLEASE PLEASE - HELP ME.

What is the worlds best florist with same or next day delivery to Shoalhaven, NSW AU?
the one who is delivering to me
Reply:1800flowers.com


I just bought some wisteria seeds for our home. Do I soak them for 24 hours? They were delivered in the mail.?

Then I read that from seeds they do not produce flowers. Anyone know anything about wisteria? Or have had any experience with them? Thanks

I just bought some wisteria seeds for our home. Do I soak them for 24 hours? They were delivered in the mail.?
WISTERIA IS A NOXIOUS WEED IN NC. YOU CAN HEAR THE SEED PODS POP AND THROW THE SEEDS. THEY ARE BIG AND ALMOST BLACK AND LOOK LIKE A LIMA BEAN. i WOULD TAKE A NAIL FILE AND SCORE ONE EDGE OF THE SEED, SOAK OVER NIGHT AND PLANT.

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Reply:Keep it under control. It will spread like crazy. Give it a strong support pole that is metal.


Where can i buy?

flowers online to be delivered on sunday for mothers day?



thanx

Where can i buy?
http://www.interflora.co.uk/googlesw/?cm...
Reply:good luck
Reply:My feeling on this is ..... support your local florist.....dont do the martha stewart thing. (sorry martha...love you girl, but local florists are becoming a dying breed). They probably won't be able to deliver them on sunday. But as a mom...I'd love them on friday....have them all weekend....brag to the friends. My mom is a florist and everyone in her shop is above 60, and they make very little money compared to the chain groceries and the on-line florists.....support them if you can. It's the way to get the best quality. They will be able to use their wire service to get the flowers where they need to go. But seriously......I'd go for friday.
Reply:Try Interflora - not sure which country you are in but they do have delivery from online orders across quite a few countries.
Reply:Call a local florist. They can send flowers by FTD to your mother. I agree with the person who said to support your local florist.

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Thank you gift for exceptional service?

My eye doctor has provided me with spectacular service over the past 20 years. I was blinded in my left eye when I was two (I'm now 29) and have had numerous problems with it over the years. This doctor has come in on his days off to see me at a moments notice and pretty much changed my life by introducing me to a hand-painted contact to cover my disfigured eye. I recently had the eye removed and will soon be getting a prosthetic, which is a very good thing, however, I will no longer need the services of my eye doctor. I'm trying to think of a gift for him and his assistant to thank them for going above and beyond for me. I thought of personally delivering them flowers but I think I'm looking for something more. Does anyone have any ideas? Thanks!

Thank you gift for exceptional service?
I would give him a gift card geared toward his interests or hobbies if you know what they are along with a sincere not or even letter or appreciation for all he has done for you. If you do not know his interests, a restaurant gift card would be nice, also give one to the assistant - they are the one who really keeps the office running.



Sweets and cookies are nice, but so many people will be giving the same thing and some people just get burnt out on them or don't have a sweet tooth to begin with or are trying to watch their weight. Something he can use along with the appreciation is something he will value and remember. Good luck!
Reply:A Professional might be embarrassed by a gift. I suggest instead a heartfelt letter expressing what you just said here.
Reply:I would give them something more permanent. Perhaps an engraved vase - with flowers (maybe silk flowers). Something that people in the waiting room could see.
Reply:Everyone needs to go see the eye doctor. You'll still need to get checkups, won't you? Maybe you'll still see them on occassion.

To answer your question, I think it would be very nice to give them a gift of thanks and appreciation. Do you bake? Cookies or fudge or anything homemade is usually always welcomed and appreciated. Maybe you could get them a coffeetable book for their reception area that deals with their line of work. I think they'd appreciate any gesture of your appreciation. Best wishes.


Where should I order Valentine's Day roses from?

I'm planning to send roses to my girlfriend's office on Valentine's Day. I won't be able to deliver the roses myself, therefore I will have to rely on a flower shop or delivery service to bring them to her.



I'm looking for quality and reliability at a reasonable price



Are there any good options other than using a local florist near her office?

Where should I order Valentine's Day roses from?
Your BEST option is a local florist. Please don't use one of those toll free or online services. My husband had flowers delivered to me through one of these services and the quality of the flowers was horrible. My friend had this same experience.
Reply:1-800-flowers,



ftd
Reply:A Florist, DUH!!!!!!!!!


What to do now???

Well my and my old girlfriend still talk and we still love eachother but what do i do know i love her and really i only love her, i have been trying to suprise her with gifts but the florist near her is not delivering the flowers, what else can i do, i know she wnats to meet other people but what can i do to show her that i still really love her, obviously the jerkoff at the store is a scam artist.

What to do now???
Let her have her space - no matter how hard that may be right now - remember - if you love something/someone - set them free - and if it was meant to be - they will come back...don't let her walk all over you - being indecisive - but within reason...if she sees that you respect her feeling right now - this might help her see that you really are the one for her...
Reply:lol tell her how you feel take her out and treat her like a queen
Reply:well if she wants to meet other people let her...have u ever heard of let your true love go and if they really love u they will come back...do that. if she dont really love you then move on
Reply:you can write her love letters and send them to her house!
Reply:take her the flowers yourself...duh!


I would like to buy and have delivered a dog flower bouquet. where can i order one of these?

1-800-SEND-FTD

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I need your opinion about this girl......?

you see there is this girl that i liked and so on valentines day, i surprised her by going to her class and delivering those flowers. right afterwards, we went outside and she kissed me. but the day afterwards, i tried to talk to her but she has been somewhat avoiding me. can anyone tell me what they think is going on? or tell me what i can/should do to determine if she really likes me?

I need your opinion about this girl......?
keep trying. It's possible she was in a rush, or is thinking things over. Pull back a little bit on your approach. Don't go at it as "i gave you flowers, we kissed, come date me' but just try to establish a slowly-building relationship. If she keeps avoiding her, the only thing you can do is find her some time and ask point blank if there is something she has on her mind against you. Depending on her response, subtly keep pursuing a relationship with her, try to just be friends, or set your gaze elsewhere after a gradual goodbye
Reply:wow, i dunno. sorry but i dont. maybe talking to you is awkward to her now. maybe she did something to embarrass herself rather you know it or not. who knows? maybe she thinks she was a bad kisser or something??
Reply:sounds like she got caught up in the V-Day moment
Reply:She clearly is a material girl. Everytime you approach her have a gift readily available. Or find a girl who isn't some weirdo. Either way
Reply:If she likes you she would be 110% into you...now she is afraid of what could happen....confront her and get it panned out so you don't waste no time...there is to many girls to waste your time on one!!!!


Toronto Florists?

What are some florists in Toronto that will allow me to order from here in the U.S? My cousin is having a baby and I want the flowers to be deilvered to her and her husband when the baby is born but I'm having a problem finding good florists. Do you know if like FTD or 1800 Flowers will deliver there?

Toronto Florists?
The following site has US and Canadian ordering capability, so would be well-suited to delivering to your cousin in Toronto:



http://www.flowerscanada.com/cgi-bin/ind...
Reply:I believe that you can have flowers sent via FTD, since most florists use them. The best thing to do is to call FTD and 1800 and ask them.



I have had arrangements sent all from all over the world, so I don't think it's going to be a problem.



Good Luck!


Where can i buy?

Flowers and them have them delivered to a local adress thats not too expensive ?

Where can i buy?
I'd get a price from your local florist - they usually have a range of prices - depending on what you want.
Reply:at a florist
Reply:At a florist,but you'll need to give us more info as to where you're at. you can go to FTD.com and choose your price range and arrangement and they'll send for you. You could even go under YAHOO's shopping and use one of their sites.
Reply:why don't you try the yellow pages.
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Help! ideas for long-distance valentine's gift?

My boyfriend of a little over one year is working in Seattle, while I'm finishing my last semester of college on the east coast. We can't be together for Valentine's day (I have class) but I'm visiting him for Spring break, which starts two weeks after Valentine's. I'm at a loss about what to send him...I've gone thru many ideas already - getting flowers/candy/fruit delivered to his work, making a scrapbook, etc. Anyway, just seeing if anyone has some cute ideas... We're both 21.

Help! ideas for long-distance valentine's gift?
My boyfriend and I won't be spending Val's Day together as well this year. I'm going away for about 25 days, so I'm going to make 25 notes with messages on each of them. I'm going to ask him to open one each day, every morning, so he'll feel like I'm there with him everyday. Then on Val's Day, the message will be leading him to my place, where he can find his Val's Day present. I'm ordering our favorite picture to be printed on a jigsaw puzzle. I'm also making him a website of us.
Reply:I dont think this is to expensive but really unique.



At walmart you can buy a prepaid phone for $19.

Buy a prepaid phone, Set up the phone so that it has a Seattle number and Change the settings on the phone so that the ringtone is a Romantic Song or a song that is special to you both. Have JUST the phone, no manual, no phone number, no packaging or anything, delivered to his job or home. (Anonomously)Call on Valentine's Day from a Private number and the song will play. Call just to tell him that you Love Him. The phone only needs to have like 5 or 10 minutes on it but he will wreck his brain trying to find out who and why would someone send him a box with a cell phone. Once he gets the call I'm sure he will look at you as a keeper because, he probably has never recieved something out of the norm for V-Day! Good Luck!
Reply:if you have a digital camera take some pics and print them out at home so u can take any kind of pic u want . Not necessarily nude but a lil provocative and let him know u think of him always. Make that scrapbook GOOD LUCK
Reply:something kinda cute is customized m%26amp;ms
Reply:How about a money clip that is engraved? I really think it is a cute but more importantly a useful idea. You can also engrave it with something special. If you are going to send it to him for v-day, how about putting a picture of the both of you in the money clip?



Here is a website with tons of money clips.
Reply:make a video from you computer with your picture and your favorite song and send it to his email on valentine's day.
Reply:If you're looking for a unique V-day gift that cn be delivered to him directly, these personalized soaps from soapcard. com might do the trick. they make romantic heart shaped soaps with your photo or message embedded inside. I got one for my boyfriend and he loved it. You can write all kinds of funny stuff. My boyfriend thought it was super cute! .the "Think of me when you're feeling dirty" soap was the one he loved the most.

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Birthday gift, not cheap, not expensive, for my boyfriend?

His birthday is in a month and he is very sentimental about things. Like for example for my birthday he had me roses and my birth month flower delivered to me at work. HELP!

Birthday gift, not cheap, not expensive, for my boyfriend?
THE BEST GIFT TO GIVE A GUY:



Take him out for dinner at his favorite resturant, smell fantastically sexy, look fantastically sexy........then of course MENS FAVORITE SEX...make sure to do everything men like when you make love to him.. twirl you tongue in his ear... kiss him on his neck (men that are in relationships love when their women do sexy things for them) use your hand etc. This is his birthday sex...do EVERYTHING SEXY...for him. When you scream make sure your voice is SSSexy (like a lisp)...etc.



His Birthday should be about you being SEXY and doing everything SEXY...For Him.



For the actual gift:

If you dont want to spend money on the gift. Just buy him a card. As a man, id recommend righting something like "Rough Sex Tomorrow" (depending on if your mans up for the job)
Reply:1)write a beautiful letter to him , by yourself by your own words regarding all your feeling towards him.he will like it.



2)invite him for lunch and dinner , and all the dishes prepared by you and by yourself specially for him.



3)u can give him romantic song cd/cassete or you can even wirte a song for him.
Reply:Buy some handcuffs. =]
Reply:a perfume you really like on him and shirt of something he will use.
Reply:nice watch, mabey you can get it engraved, try the mall not walmart.
Reply:bj
Reply:Ask him i bet some itiots gonna say sex.
Reply:is he the dorky type? go to thinkgeek.com there's some cool stuff for guys.
Reply:get him a gift card 2 his favoruite store or no wait like get him a gift card 2 a store u both like so that u can both use it!lol!do u have a myspace?if u do then wats ur e-mail adress cuz i like looking u up that way better!
Reply:check out this cool levitating globe, showing him you want to travel around the world with him one day or a necklace that says "remember to play" or "life is good."



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Reply:Here's something creative that will be appreciated and you will have fun doing:



Make up a crossword puzzle and have all the hints be personal inside moments and jokes that only you two would know about. Put it on a poster board and add some clipart and some pictures to it!



The crossword puzzle could be time consuming and a bit frustrating ... you could do the same idea with a WORDSEARCH or WORDFIND puzzle.



Put your computer skills to work! Use Excel, get clipart from Yahoo Images Search, copy them, and reformat them, use a gluestick to put on posterboard.



Use graph paper, and pictures from magazines if you are not as good on the computer, and it will give it more of a homemade feeling.


Have ordered off the net complete cock up and now I cannot contact them any ideas?

ordered a bouget of flowers for a new babies arrival on sunday, ordered same day delivery to a address in chester, I'm in milton keynes, the flowers were delivered TUESDAY to my own address almost dead! sent them back but the company, [Blooming Flowers in Herts ] will not respond at all.

Have ordered off the net complete cock up and now I cannot contact them any ideas?
If you paid by credit card, contact the credit card complany and cancel payment on the item. That's the reason we use credit cards! Once they realize they aren't getting their $$ I bet they start listening to you.



Sorry about your bad experience.
Reply:Write them a threatening letter stating your rights, best check them out first, dont worry, you're well covered but not if you dont act fast.
Reply:I sympathise - I bought a product off Ebay and paid using paypal, then more than 24 hours later I am informed by ebay that this item is no longer listed. Surely Ebay has some responsibility to me!
Reply:I don't know if you're in the US, but if you are you can contact the Better Business Bureau. If you're not, there's probably an equivalent agency where you live.
Reply:take the day off go round to florist and throw a brick thro there window
Reply:contact your local council's consumer advice service
Reply:they are based in hatfield ... IM me and i will get their number for you they are in the town centre and know the lady who owns it or runs it not sure . give me 5 and i will get a number for you ................. ok they are a network ..head office is Contact Information

Telephone

01942 812731

Postal address

69 Market St, Westhoughton, Bolton.

Electronic mail

General Information: jo@blooming-flowers.co.uk

Sales: jo@blooming-flowers.co.uk


What could i do for a girl i like for valentines?

theres this girl i like and were super close friends. I really like her and i dont know if she likes me. we talk on the phone quite a bit and whenever i miss her she always calls back. she even text me really randomly lol. anyway, she doesnt live near me and i dont know what i should do for her for valentines. or if i even should do anything? i was thinking maybe just have some flowers delivered to her work or something like that. i just dont want to freak her out....

What could i do for a girl i like for valentines?
That would be really nice. Very classy too.


Should I apologize to my teacher?

Okay....last Friday my band teacher was ticked off because her one class stole a bag of chips we had for an event and ate them and took them to the instrument room. Well, since I am an aide 3rd period, I noticed that there were chips scadered on the floor, and a roach in that room on Wednesday. So I was going to tell her, but that day we had gotten flowers delivered to her and I totally forget beacause as soon as the bell rang my friend and I went to get them. So Thirsday in my aiding period I notice it and I was like "Dang I have to tell her!" but I forget again. So I was at school late Friday and I was getting my instrument to take home, and I saw and I was like "I'm telling her now!" And I was like "Just so you know, those chips are scadered in the insrument room and I saw a roach and some baby spiders..it's been like that a while." She wasn't in a terrific mood that day anyway, but she got kind ticked off and was like "A while!?" And I was like "Yeah I noticed it Wednesday."

Should I apologize to my teacher?
She wasn't upset at YOU. She is upset at the lack of communication. The best thing you can tell her is "I will work on my communication skills and try not to get sidetracked when important imformation needs to go to people." That shows that you are taking responsibility for yourself and that you know you need to prioritize things better. Believe me, that will make her happy!
Reply:I think she figured you were purposely not telling her beings you knew since Wednesday. The way you said it was like basically "oh ya there's a mess back there, see ya" Just go back to her and explain why you had not told her until when you did so she understands that you wasn't just purposely not telling her. Tell her the truth about who stole them too because she could be blaming the wrong group.
Reply:Yes, I think you should apoligize just so you don't stay on her bad side. Tell her what you told us. It's not like you were distracted for a pointless reason, you were doing her a favor by getting her flowers she should be happy with you and not grouchy. Good luck.
Reply:If you feel bad go clean up the mess when your aiding one day. After all, you are an aid. Go clean up the mess and tell your teacher when your done, "i clean up the room."
Reply:I would tell her that it's maybe cause she yells when people tell her stuff and people are scare of her. But wait till shes got a chance to chill out.
Reply:just let her know you were busy and things kept getting in the way... I hope that this helps
Reply:Atleast u told her u dont owe her and explaination
Reply:no, sounds like she's got a problem. she should be thanking you for telling her!
Reply:Then tell your teacher.
Reply:Don't worry i am sure it will all blow over
Reply:Well good on you for telling her, I don't think I would of.
Reply:First, it's really sweet that you care about your teacher's feelings. Many students don't (take it from a college instructor). You didn't do anything wrong, its not your duty to report on the state of a classroom. However, if you feel bad this is what I would do personally.



I would talk to her on Monday and apologize for not letting her know about the problem sooner and offering to help with any cleanup that might need to be done. Just let her know that you respect how hard she works and you want to be there to help her with anything you can.



I bet though that by Monday she will have forgotten this whole thing.

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Being kept on a string?

Met this woman recently. Used to see her 2-3 times a week. Our paths no longer cross nor should they ever, except we agreed to stay in touch. The only tie I have to her is her cell phone. Lately she's been harder to communicate with since she is 'so busy'. She e-mails apologies to me when she doesn't call. She says she will try to call, but she rarely does. I am so close to saying to her to please stop sayng you're going to call, and just call! Her apologies are driving me crazy. I've never asked her to call, she offers, then she flakes and the cycle repeats itself. I feel I'm wasting my time. Yesterday, I had flowers delivered to her, never got a thank you call until I called her! She was busy (single mom). I am considering just fading away. I wonder why she hasn't just said she's not interested. I mean I have made my intentions clear. Am I wasting time? I am becoming impatient and disinterested. I am 13 years older than her: she knows I like her but we haven't talked about feelings.

Being kept on a string?
"Single Mom, Working and running a Family" FRIENDS! you need to give her some room. Stringing you along "I Really Doubt It!" Back Off, Give her some Time.



Question; Have you ever been a Single Parent? "I have". Not Easy but you do what you can for the Kid(s) and for yourself when you can! Even through it Hurts Sometimes Personal Relationships have to Wait sometimes. I was a Single Parent for 5 Years before I had time to get into a personal life again after my kids were grown. Most times it's harder for the Ladies, Give Her Room and Time! If it's meant to work it Will.
Reply:just let her go? i mean, what else can you do? i mean, that's no way to treat someone. if she's going to be like that now, wait till later when you're in a relationship with her (if thats at all possible). she'll drive you mad!
Reply:It sounds like you're being kept on the backburner..she obviously isn't interested anymore, and she's too shy to actually say it straight up, she's giving you the hint..soo I suggest you just take it, and walk away.


How do I move on?

Just recently, I have ended my current realtionship finally. The situation was that I wanted to date other people. However, after we broke up the second time, it didnt prevent us from spending time together and doing the things that we use to do. What makes it even more difficult is that we currently work together fro right now; and 3 days after we broke up the 2nd time he had flowers delivered to the job for me. It seemed as if he wanted to win me back and convince me to stay because by us hanging out and doing what we do "actions speak louder than words and we obviously still have feelings or each other". He came over today and said we had to settle it. I told him that it would be better if we just be friends or completely moved on. I decided that we should completely move on. However, I alway find myself thinking about him. Its hard and I dont know how to start over. Any suggestions??

How do I move on?
well if you still have feelings for him then you should get back with him, but if you don't really want to be with him then you should just do things to keep you busy and keep him off ur mind
Reply:get a hobbie

or date sum1 else
Reply:I suggest that you don't just throw this relationship away because of you want to experience someone else, why? Don't you love him anymore? Are you completely over him? Do you really want someone else other than him?



You're lucky you have someone who's trying to win you back. The one i really love just left me and I can always easily say things to people but now that I just got my heartbroken- I really wish I would never go through it again. It's the hardest thing you can feel- it's longest wound that can heal- or maybe will never heal but i'm trying to cope with it day by day.



All i'm saying is treasure what you have now and take care of it. You might just regret it one day...
Reply:Keep yourself busy and involved with family and friends.

Do some volunteer work somewhere that would be of interest to you.That way,you'd help yourself and others as well.
Reply:If you really want to move on you need to stop all contact. Do not talk to him at work or outside of work. You need to make a clean break. That way it will get easier everyday. When you keep making contact and see each other just like you did when you were seeing each other...well...it would be hard to break up, so you just need to stop all contact all together.
Reply:find something to do that gets your mind off of the situation like a hobbi or somthing. every time you start to think about him start to focus on something elts.
Reply:well just be carefull. guard your heart and dont fall agian bc u miss him. Of course u miss him!!! i assume youve been together for a while . So of course youre gonna be thinking about him .. .i mean for the past how ever long youve been with him hes always been there for u. So it just takes time..... and if u are meant to be together TIME WILL TELL. but for now just go out with your friends and enjoy the trime being single!!!!


Birthday gift for mom?

Any ideas....its technically in an hour.



She's going out of town though early in the morning.



i actually have to go into work for a few minutes about 2 hours before she leaves, so i can grab something from walmart.

(which i don't really want to do, but yeah i rather get her something than nothing and then get her something else in a few days.....been so busy. )



She likes girly stuff mostly.....I don't' like repeating gifts. Got her a ring one year.....necklace another....earrings another.......flowers delivered to work......did perfume too many times. She's a coin / stamp collector...but not like super into it....got her rare coins and stamps last year.



I think she wants direct tv, but not something i can get done by the end of the weekend, and i need it set up in her name since i'm moving out relatively soon (need ss# and what not).

Birthday gift for mom?
flat screen tv..

nice quilt...

her favorite tv show collections...
Reply:Maybe too late, but ohhh soooo easy to answer



A paid up gift voucher for a spa. Heaven.
Reply:give her a keyring :D
Reply:Give her $50. That always makes my mom happy on her birthday.
Reply:A gift card to her favorite restaurant and a promise to escort her.
Reply:So find out the cost on a good plan for Direct TV Get Her a nice card, and Put a check in it with a note telling Her That this is Your gift to Her,on Her special Day, and that You will help Her , with getting it connected...HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!! to Your Mom..
Reply:If you're looking for a fun personalized gift for your loved one, these personalized soaps from http://www.soapcard.com should do the trick. they make soaps with your photo or just message embedded inside. I got one for my boyfriend and he loved it. You can write all kinds of funny stuff.... My boyfriend thought it was super cute! .the "Think of me when you're feeling dirty" soap was the one he loved the most


10 pts...should I get her a present?

My friend's birthday is tomorrow. I am wondering if I should get her a present. We have three mutual friends who've had birthdays in the last 2 weeks, and I've gotten those three girls presents. (pajamas, bathrobe, etc)



But those three girls had parties or dinners where I would give them a present. As far as I know she's not doing anything. At the same time, I have a crush on her. And it's only recently that we've begin to hang out...I don't want her to think I don't care...but also I don't want her to think I am going too out of my way for her.



I was thinking getting some flowers delivered....what do you think?

10 pts...should I get her a present?
Definitely get her something

But not something as intimate as pajamas

Flowers or a dvd or something would be perfect
Reply:yeah. i like the flowers idea. that way she'll know that you care enough about her to get her a present, even if she isn't doing anything for her b-day. if you didn't get her anything she might think that, since you guys have jut started hanging out, you don't care enough about you guys's friendship for it to exceed to something more. so, anyways, flowers would be a very sweet present. it hints that you like her, but not so much to get her creeped out. and anyway, they are pretty. (if you know how to pick em'!) good luck! =]Sarah
Reply:yea get her somethin thats way hot when a guy friend just gives a girl something in school but i wouldnt do flowers i think thats kinda played out maybe do a cute little bracelet that doesnt cost much and is super cute that she can wear it everyday that way she can wear it and think of you
Reply:I think flowers would be a great thing. If you don't want to go overboard, forget roses and get something fun like daises or sunflowers. That way it shows you care but won't scare her away with looking like you tried "too" hard.
Reply:A movie or CD would do great not the expensive ones to start with and if it's a movie she might invite you to watch it with you.
Reply:definitley or maybe balloons and a card. maybe bring her dinner or some type of an event to be at night with her, who knows? maybe she'll want 'another' present from you when the dishes are all washed. =)
Reply:That is so sweet...she should really like that...don't forget to write a little note in the card so she knows it's from you.
Reply:Yes,flowers would be nice along with a birthday card.
Reply:flowers would b great...i think she would really like them...if u didnt get her anything or do anything with her then she might have hurt feelings...
Reply:well yeah!!! do that. every girl loves to get flowers.

it makes her feel special.
Reply:I'm a girl and i think u should get her jewlery~~~ girls lov jewlery!!

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If you had a sister that was given up for adoption before you were born would you want to know?

I found my biological parents after 26 years. My birth mother said that my brother does not know (he's 24) and that he never will know. She says my birth father is not ready to meet me yet. I have doubts that he even knows (long story). I know where they live, just 15 miles away from me. I had a card and flowers delivered to the house last Christmas with my contact information inside. My birth mother called me and said that the time was not right to meet anyone but she promised that we would not fall out of contact again. By chance I found their house listed for sale on the internet and I don't want to miss out on my last chance to go and make contact with my brother. Would it be wrong of me to make an attempt?

If you had a sister that was given up for adoption before you were born would you want to know?
I don't think it would be wrong, you're both adults, however, it may make your birth parents mad, which is something they would have to deal with. The only warning I would give, is to be ready to handle rejection, it may not be something you need to worry about, but your brother may not be as open to meeting you as you are to him. You just have to keep it in mind so that you don't end up hurt in the long run. Best of luck to you!
Reply:Go for it and do it fast! Its been long enough and you are all adults. Dont hesitate and go and meet your brother and dad.



Seems like you mother hides something. Dont let that get between you and your right to know the truth.
Reply:no

your brother has a right to know that he has a sister regardless of weather your mom wants him to or not and it is not your moms design about when a right time is (i mean is someone just died or something i dont think it would be perfect timing but besides that...)



i would defiantly tell him. and soon before he moves. if you do tell him and he dose want a relationship with you, then you should start it as soon as you can while you can still have a in person relationship. (this is assuming hes moving a good distance away and not just down the street or something.)



but yes, i would tell him. its not your moms choice or decision weather he should know.
Reply:i can feel the urge inside u to see ur biological connections. its vary normal. i would say why not. just go for it. coz u wont be able to stop thinking about it untill u see them.
Reply:Go for it, it is your right and your birth mother is being to selfish. And your brother has a right to know too. And your father also has a right to know.


Should I apologize to my teacher?

Okay....last Friday my band teacher was ticked off because her one class stole a bag of chips we had for an event and ate them and took them to the instrument room. Well, since I am an aide 3rd period, I noticed that there were chips scadered on the floor, and a roach in that room on Wednesday. So I was going to tell her, but that day we had gotten flowers delivered to her and I totally forget beacause as soon as the bell rang my friend and I went to get them. So Thirsday in my aiding period I notice it and I was like "Dang I have to tell her!" but I forget again. So I was at school late Friday and I was getting my instrument to take home, and I saw and I was like "I'm telling her now!" And I was like "Just so you know, those chips are scadered in the insrument room and I saw a roach and some baby spiders..it's been like that a while." She wasn't in a terrific mood that day anyway, but she got kind ticked off and was like "A while!?" And I was like "Yeah I noticed it Wednesday."

Should I apologize to my teacher?
Yes, apologize. You will both feel better.
Reply:Would it make you feel better to apologize? If so, then you should. If you think you did something wrong then apologize for it, otherwise let it go.
Reply:well its not entirely your fault you forgot! just apologise nd tell her you forgot, nd tell her why you left the room without answering her question. Good luck im sure she will understand that you were pressured nd stuff.
Reply:I think you should of apologized right then and there..I'm sure she would of felt better about the situation. If you bring it up now she'll just get upset all over again..It's not your fault you forgot though.
Reply:Well, no one is perfect and who knows that may not have been the best day to tell her anyway. Just let her know you were not intentionally keeping information from her.
Reply:Sai sorrry, pirson!
Reply:Yes, apologize. Then go to work on your spelling %26amp; grammer.
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Reply:just study hard in school...cause youre grammar stinks!!!
Reply:yeah, then you could clear your conscience and earn respect for doing so
Reply:She sounds stressed, don't say anything. Imagine working in a place that doesn't get cleaned and has roaches and spiders all over food that has been on the floor and student who steal your belongings. You don't have to apologize. However, you might want to make her think about her treatment of you by giving her a card or something that says, I am sorry you seem to be under so much stress. You might want to put an apple with it! You deserve the apology.
Reply:To me this seems a rather trivial matter.. we are all humans and we can forget something. it's not as though you forgot to tell her something that was of real importance for her to be told right away... it was a minor little offense.. all I would do is go back to her and tell her you were sorry for having walked out the other day when you told her.. and that you are sorry for having forgotten to tell her earlier and that it won't happen again.. Case closed..



If she is mature and a fair person she will let this matter go right away then.. I would just apologize once more as I said.. and then you have done your duty.. She is not perfect either and if she is a fair person she will understand that people sometimes can forget something.. she would have had more reason to be upset if this had been an important matter .. reassure her it won't happen again and apologize.. that' s the end of that and most likely she will say ok and the matter will be forgotten...xx

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I want a card delivered.?

I need it delivered to a girl while she is at work(walmart.) She's is in Texas, I'm in louisiana. I want the card to have a picture of me in it. I was thinking of mailing the card to a flower delivery service and having them deliver it with flowers. I'm not very mobile and I'm terribly busy. Any suggestions? Something out side the box please.

I want a card delivered.?
How about sending it with a singing telegram?


What do YOU want for v-day? (guys really!)?

I need a good gift for my bf for valentines. I was thinking an Edible Arrangement delivered (hes at school. im home) or maybe even a bouquet of balloons. Would that be stupid for a guy to get? I dont want to do the whole picture frame thing etc...Hes getting flowers delivered most likely, so i need something to match that. We're only 19, so nothing rediculous! haha Any suggestions as to what i can possibly buy him would be AWESOME. he's not into sports!



Thanks guys!

What do YOU want for v-day? (guys really!)?
im also 19 and i honestly would not care what my gf got me (but i really dont like it when people give me materialistic things) so i would be over the moon if she just got me a rose and spent the day with me



anything simple that shows your affection would go down very well i imagine
Reply:something that is non tradition
Reply:Dear, dear,

Forget the foo foo stuff, he'll do that for u, get him something that he'll have and think of u for a long time to come, my #1 suggestion for a lad of 19 would be CDs...hmmm..his favorite of course, but if your stuck I would suggest these bands as a start: FLAW, Disturbed, Static-X, Rob Zombie, MTVs Headbangers Ball, Soundtracks Queen of the Damned or XXX, or go with a good DVD. As far as the edible arrangement I am sure you are the only "food" he'll want on his plate.


Who does't like Valentine's Day Gifts?

I had flowers delivered to my wifes work. I bought (4) cards to give my wife. (1) from our (3) kids and (3) from me. She leaves for work @ 4am so I placed one by her purse after she went to sleep so she would get it in the morning. I placed a card that plays music in her car so she would see it on the way to work. She called me a few time during the day and treated me like a jerk on the phone even though I did not do anything to her. The last phone she bitched at me for buying her flowers. At this point I hung up on her. The kids gave her their card after I got home from work. And I was no longer in the romantic Valentines Day mode to give her the third. I also made a slide show of pictures of us together over the years accompanied by our wedding song. I received thanks for the first card and that was it. I did not realize my wife had become such a heartless *****!

Who does't like Valentine's Day Gifts?
my guess is that she's angry about something else and taking it out on you. Ask her what's wrong. Let her know your feelings were hurt but AFTER you find out what's eating her.
Reply:even if she had a bad day she should have been thoughtful
Reply:Poor guy!



I feel bad for you....





I know I would be happy to get flowers. My ex was about the most selfish, unromantic guy on earth, I never got diddly-squat for Valentine's. You sound like a sweetie, maybe she'll realize that before her attitude drives you away completely.
Reply:It really does sound like there might be something else wrong here, is she stressed? You say she leaves for work at 4.00 am so perhaps she is worn out or simply feels that you guys don't have enough time together.....anyway obviously this is all just guess work, can you try and talk to her calmly about this....remember calmly though, no shouting or making her feel bad, I know this must have hurt after all the effort but she won't talk if you make her feel guilty !! Good Luck
Reply:Usually when a person blows up over something that isn't really rational then they are stressed and still upset about something else that remains unresolved and is causing them duress. Are you having financial issues? Maybe she thought it was a waste of money. Really do some searching and thinking to try and determine what she was actually angry over. No matter the reason for her blow up, she should have handled it differently. Maybe you can tell her how much it upset you. I hope that you all can figure out a way to talk nicely to each other. It's important not only for the health of your relationship, but also for your children's health. They deserve to see a more loving example. Good luck, I hope she works things out nicely.
Reply:Wow ... that is really sweet of you. I can understand why you would not be in the Valentines day mode any longer after her being that way. Sorry to hear that you VD didn't go so well. You never said but did you give her the video? That would have made my heart fill with joy if my husband had done that for me, not complaining my husband gave me a day to mysfl coupon and flowers, and beautiful card with loving words that he wrote himself. He made me amazingly happy and I gave him "you know what" *wink-wink* which he was way happy with. Hope today is better for you. Good luck.
Reply:Awww, that sucks. I would have never done you like. Just the fact you took the time to buy that stuff and put together that slide show for her is sweet. She is ungrateful. I hope your wife doesn't always act like...if so, thats sad.
Reply:You made a slide show of pictures along with your wedding song??



OMG
Reply:You should talk to her about it. Sounds like it's something else that's bothering her. I loved everyone of my presents and the flowers he sent me where my favorite cause they were pink and the card blew me away...I cried.
Reply:Now, this take may have nothing to do with your case. That said, here goes:



Sounds like your wife reacted the way a woman reacts to a man who sees v-day as one day of atonement for 364 of neglect. Especially if money is tight.



Are you doing your share of housework and childcare? Do you put the toilet seat down? Treat her with respect? Satisfy her physical needs even when you're not in a romantic mood?



If everything truly is in order, then she's stressed about something big and if you're a loving husband you'll try to give her the safe space she needs to open up about it.
Reply:WOW... I would have been amazed at the one card.... let alone three AND flowers?! She needs a wake up call.... My husband didn't get me anything, but there isn't a complaint there... I came home to a clean house, rearranged office and living room and he got off the computer, enjoyed a movie with me after the kids went to bed and then well... the rest was our marital fun....



All I can say is SHE NEEDS A WAKE UP CALL. Most guys don't do squat... And she got all that?! Sounds to me like next year, I would just tell her Happy Valentine's Day... and leave it at that... She sounds very ungrateful for what should have been a wonderful day.


I miss my boyfriend so much....?

we dating for about 10 months. We were fighting cus we both have alot of stress in our lives...and because of the 18 yrs age diff we both decided to go our separate ways. we work together, and we have been talking at work. He comes by my desk to ask me how my day is going and vice versa. I had flowers delivered to my desk from my best friend and he even asked who the flowers were from. I am DYING to email him and tell him I miss him , but i'm afraid of rejection and how I would feel if he told me he doesnt want me back. I think it speaks volumes that we are still talking and smiling at eachother at work...I dont know how to read this.... I'm heart broken...dont know whether to let it go or not.

I miss my boyfriend so much....?
My best advice is to talk to him. Yes you are setting yourself up for potential rejection but there is also the potential to get the one you care about back. You'll never know unless you speak up. It would be worse going on not knowing then knowing the truth whatever it may be. You never know, he may be feeling the same way, and is scared to talk to you....
Reply:Let it go. He probl. wants one or two more sessions between the sheets or on top of the desk. Don't do it and move on.



But when you do give in, fax me the copy of your butt that prints out while he has his way with you in the copy room.....lol

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I don't think V day should be put on the calendar...?

Everyday should be Valentine's day...its not necessary to buy roses, jewelry and whatever else material things that is used as a symbol of an affection. ppl say love can't be bought...well believe that thousands of peole , especially men buy rose or a box of cnady for their (suppos) sweethearts only to keep them quiet. I just saw an executive(probably president or vp) of a company rush out of the CVS store with a bunch or roses, I mean someone like him, we'd expect him to go to a flower boutique store or have the flowers delivered. V does spread some love...but a lot of hostility, envy, and depresstion. bc not all pple have the funds to buy nice gifts or they'll buy an expensive jewelry just to keep up with the jones next door. I'm not tryin to sound like a scrooge but i just like an old fashion love.....

I don't think V day should be put on the calendar...?
So what is your question. You don't care for Valentines day, got it. However, there are hundreds if not thousands of men and women who are not told I Love you every day by their partners. So one day a year to be showered with love and attention isn't such a bad thing. Some men and women for that matter forget their anniversary's but it is hard to forget Valentines day with Red/Pink everywhere. Leave the day alone it is harmless. Besides I like my home made valentines from my boys. They are as special to me as the butterflys they make for me at school.
Reply:then don't buy any one any thing for v-day. there's no law saying you have to. i know my hubby will come home with some thing. it will not be some thing that cost very much money but he will show me he thought of me today. i went and bought some steaks and shrimp to cook out on the grill. it did not cost much money but it is his favorite meal. it shows i thought about him today. i think you are making way to much out of this. i bet Christmas really sets you off.
Reply:I would say that is true for the most part. What is V day really for? We should be show our love to our spouse, kids pretty much everyday. What if we actually DID this ona regular basis instead of using V day once a year to do it? I think people's lives would be more happy and content.



I think it was Saint Valentine who started this holiday, although I'm not sure what he did exactly to get it started. Maybe it was in truly in the name of love and just turned into a holiday I suppose.


What do you think about my short story?

My Grandmother…







”Lucy Pearl” was her name.











I remember her face like it was yesterday.







1983.



It was summertime in Galveston, Texas.



As usual it was hot as hell, and humid enough to drown.



I pedaled my rickety, hand-me-down bike two hours to the hospital to see her that day. She had been there for about a month or so, and my parents had been too busy to visit, so I decided to brighten her day by hand delivering some of her favorite Earl Grey tea.



The last leg of the trip was a real hustle do to the ominous black storm clouds lumbering in from the Gulf of Mexico.



I finally arrive at her hospital room sweaty, tired and undoubtedly stinky.



She was alone in a bright, cheery room with one window facing west with beams of the Texas sun piercing through light blue hospital curtains and highlighting a table full of flowers from loved ones.



No one else was there.



Mutual of Omaha’s Wild Kingdom was on the TV with the volume cranked to maximum. “My hearin’ ain’t whut it use ta be” She would always say in her broken southern dialect that I’ve tried so hard to shake all my life.



I gave her a kiss on the cheek, and said my “hellos”.



She asked me to turn the TV off.



She said,”Cottontop, You almost missed me, glad you’re here, need to talk to ya”.



I heard a bit of urgency in her voice, so I moved closer, %26amp; took her hand.



She told me “Grandma’s very proud of you”. (It’s funny how Grandma’s always refer to themselves in the third person) Then she said “ Seen ya growin’, like the direction you’re growin’ in.” She looked into my eyes, motioned for me to come closer. I can still see every wrinkle on her high cheek boned 85 year old three quarter Cherokee face. “You keep that direction” she whispered intently staring directly into my eyes. “You keep it, you hear me?” Her hand was small, and soft in mine. Soft, but leathery and weathered, the same hands that would lovingly grab my face before every bit of sage advice given with the importance of the ages. At times through my childhood, she’d put both hands on my face and turn it toward hers…”Say whatcha mean, and mean whatcha say…you hear me?”



But not this time.



There was no strength left in her hands to turn my face. She could barely turn hers.



Then she said, without speaking in the “third person”, “I’m tired, and I’m goin’ home.



You remember me, %26amp; whut I dun taughtcha, you hear me boy?’



I said “Yes ma’am”, doing my best to understand exactly what was happening.



“Yes ma’am, I remember everything”.



Still, not understanding exactly why she was telling me these things.



But I knew something was wrong because she said “I’m”.



Then she said it again.



“I’m goin’ to sleep now, but I won’t be waking up and there ain’t nuthin’ for you to be afraid of…I’ll always be with ya”.



Then, it hit me.



I’m here, with the woman who taught me about God, family, faith, honesty, integrity, hard work, charity, humility, and patience.



And she is telling me goodbye for the last time.



I thought to myself,” We’re all alone, and she is telling me goodbye for the very last time”.



It was allot for a thirteen year old to absorb.



Life changing.



I was being hit with the cold hard reality that our time here is but a blink of an eye. Just like she always said it was.



Then she said, “Goodbye Cottontop, I’ll see you when you get home”.



She lightly squeezed my hand one last time, inhaled slowly, closed her eyes, and then exhaled.



There were no more inhales.



Just hospital sounds.



And rain.



She was gone forever.















Aaron Byers



2006

What do you think about my short story?
Continue on with your writing, you have a talent. There is a few sentences that I would have not included,



I thought to myself,” We’re all alone, and she is telling me goodbye for the very last time”.



Redundancy.



Keep writing from the heart, and you will have a best seller. Your own style is better than something forced from a book. Format does need to be addressed.



I would give you a A-, only because it could have been cleaned up a little.



Otherwise, WOW!
Reply:You need to go to the library and take out a book on how to write short stories, or go buy one. Any mediocre storyline that is well written can outshine a great story that is not as well written.
Reply:she sounds like a REAL grandma. Very touching but nice.
Reply:i am sorry i didnt read it.and dont ever call it a short story...
Reply:great story! sad but touching.



one tip- check the spelling of allot- should be "a lot".



faboo!
Reply:you have a very touching and heart felt story. You have a talent if you continue to meditate on things that mean something to you. You have the ability to enhance your God givin' skill at this, just correct your spelling and sentence structure and you got it going on.! Hang in there.


He acted on a sexual fantasy...HELP!?

My husband of 10 years made plans for a 2nd honeymoon for us. I thought it was sweet of him...at first. He made reservations at a hotel, and got flowers delivered to the room. When we arrived at the hotel, he went in to check us in, and took our luggage up to the room while he had me wait in the car with a blindfold on..because he had a surprise waiting in the room for me. He lead me to the hotel room. As soon as we entered the room, he told me to keep the blindfold on, and that he couldn't wait to make love with me. So he started to undress me, which I thought was really sexy-like the way he did it. I still had the blindfold on.....and he said he wanted me to keep it on the whole time, so I was surprised with each one of his moves. I agreed to it. After making love he took the blindfold off of me...and the surprise was 4 other men in the room VIDEO TAPING US! They played the video for me, at one point my hubby had the camera and one of the other guys was with me! YIKES!

He acted on a sexual fantasy...HELP!?
I think your the one who's having a fantasy(or wishing you were), come on! r u saying after 10y's of marrage and making love to the same man you really couldn't tell the difference between him and a stranger ?....oh please !!!!
Reply:i would make it my personal life goal to make his life hell on earth..there wouldnt be a hole deep enough or a mountain high enough and he better have a damn good lawyer and he better have the 1 and only copy of the tape which would be handed to me by the judge and i would make sure that he never EVER touched me or had anything to do with me again
Reply:sounds like a secxual fantasy of urs..
Reply:you like making up story's don't you?
Reply:First off... I hope this is a joke. If it isn't then wtf!!! Who did you marry? This is illegal on SO many levels. You were raped... I would take the tape and as embarrassing as it is... turn it in. Your husband is a freakin disgusting human being. I hope you arent in the same building as him right now. You need to kick his a** out until the divorce papers are signed and his a** is in jail...

This seriously nausiated me. If my husband did this he would be buried in the backyard somewhere by now. Ugh. Respect yourself please. Don't be a doormat like so many other women. Better yet, give me his address. haha. I'll take care of the waste of space...
Reply:You seek help, OK:

See you get the tape(=proof and do it quickly) and take legal advice(solicitor) he needs treatment or a divorce.

He took in a very bad way advantage and it's a reason to divorce.
Reply:And you had no idea that four other men were in the room? If this is the case then I find it suspicious.. especially the changing of the men to have sex with you. I also find it strange that this would be your first post to this board and you don't sound alarmed about it.

A sexual fantasy you say? Well apparently this has been talked about.. and obviously this is no big deal to you.

It certainly would be to me. The word wouldn't be "yikes". It would be "divorce".

So what exactly is your question?
Reply:No freakin way!!!!

Have you ever indicated that this would interest you? If not, then I'd burn the tape and kick his ***.
Reply:sh!t, i like this fantasy! your husband was not right for taping you without your knowledge though. plus did you even know the other men? your husband was definitely out of place for letting another man dip in his cookie jar. i dont know what your man was thinking with all that!
Reply:Girl, and your problem is?????

Have him call my husband ASAP!!!!!!!



I need some of that!
Reply:Um, only one person should be commenting on this, and that is you. If you enjoyed it, thanks for sharing the story. If you did not, you should be talking to him and deciding what to do with your future.
Reply:I would be furious and that's putting it mildly. I'd be sleeping in the other bedroom for a while to give him time to think about what he did. I'd burn that tape in front of him and tell him he needs to get on his knees and apologize for embarrassing you like this.



That is just plain tacky !!!
Reply:Tell me your kidding and this is a joke.When I got to the part

of you taking off your blindfold I just couldn't believe it and you sat there and watch it with other man. No frickin way is this real. If it is you are going to divorce this man for doing this to you right.
Reply:I am so sorry this is good way to sell flowers
Reply:Holy freaking crap. I almost can't believe that. I'm just going to be honest.... what a freaking *$($(#*%%26amp;....... have you EVER indicated that you would want that? You know what.... it doesn't matter.. unless you were like... "hey, honey... why don't you $*$* me with a bunch of dudes taping and watching... and while you are at it.... why don't you let them #*#*# me" That is sooo messed up.... that is traumatizing... get rid of him...... I would even consider legal action...... you did not consent to sex with this other man. I am so sorry. You might consider getting some professional help.
Reply:I might be old fashioned but what a pig! As far as the other guy I call this rape.
Reply:Sounds like you were not angry about what happened. just confused. If my husband did that to me I would kick his a** and ask questions later.
Reply:You're lying to yourself and to the Yahoo's community. The motions of your man can't be duplicated. You were caught up with the fantasy also.
Reply:The tape makes a great bit of evidence for your divorce lawyer.
Reply:Either



1) you knew what was going on, how could you not know that there was more than one person in the room. You can feel when something's up... shame on you.



or



2) you need to leave him today.
Reply:I would drop-kick him.
Reply:Well, you never really asked a question...you just used the word "Help" to get the attention of people to read this cock-n-bull story. What kind of help do you need? Mental? Cause you and him are into this kinky type of stuff and I suspect you just wanted to put some shock into YA.



Hope ya didn't catch some little critters along the way.
Reply:That is absolutely horrific. No excuses, horrific, horrible. That is also rape by the way, you never consented to sex with that other man. The fact that your husband would ever subject you to that is nauseating. Please, please, please, respect yourself enough to get out of this before it gets any worse.
Reply:Divorce the pervert before you find out more about his secret life, it will sicken you even more!!!!
Reply:He violated your rights and is a disgusting perve. I cant believe he didnt ask you first! YOu could and should have him charged.

Who were the other men?

That is so gross.

I'd kill him. What a pig
Reply:yikes super!!!

is he out of his mind doing that thing???and the nerve!he did to you as his wife??what the S*** came into his mind???
Reply:you got duped.



i dont actually see a question here...



idiot


This is my double acrostic. You like?

I don't know the rules of this - has it got to be some burning question of the day? If yes, then I haven't done it right!





Garden's

Glories



Gladioli tall and swaying

Arising like a billowing sail

Regal scented radiance to

Deliver beauty to the flower

Enraptured by each gladioli

No true gardener could ignore

Such a display of pretty heads

This is my double acrostic. You like?
A doubler...!

Wow... well done.

Never tried one of them... Singles were as far as I got.

Seeing as I'm here again, for a bit, I must have a looksee if I can find one or two of them.

Anywho, I digress... Well done. "Regal scented radiance" is an especially beautiful phrase.

Have a gold star...!

Tanx for sharing your work...

Dx



%26lt;EDIT%26gt;



ps. now that I think about it...



Well Done



Well written and crafted

Endearing beauty so

Loveable use of diction

Leafing joy whilst swinging hoe
Reply:That's great, I love Garden poems and your double acrostic is very lovely. I love glads, I only wish they didn't die back so early.
Reply:I am amazed at the abilities of other poets here... I would fall, unsuccessful in my attempts at a double acrostic...



This, this is wonderful. I admire you that much more now...
Reply:Really beautiful...these double acrostics have been very well done today.



Nice consistent flow of ideas all the way through...it doesn't come off as choppy or forced.
Reply:What you have written now reads like what a real poet have written . You also needs to write acrossticaly on glories.
Reply:yes i liked it......it's well directed and well made...and it's wonderful that every one is after acrostics today......
Reply:Wow...i just cant keep up with all my acrostic maker friends today.
Reply:Wonderful! I'm glad you joined the acrostic makers.
Reply:Glads...one of my favorite flowers! You did well, not to be a burning question. (Unless of course, your garden is aflame.)
Reply:Oh wow.

Don't know what else to say.

Nice work:)
Reply:W..........D

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L............N

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I will let the expert fill in the blanks!
Reply:good try
Reply:bettern mine.

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My boyfriend....gosh I love him?

you guys..

my boyfriend just had flowers delivered to my office..I was so surprised because it was totally unexpected..I love him soo much..there are times when I think that he doesnt care about me..but i know that is just my insecurity..we as women have that sometimes...

I am so happy today..he has really made my day..

I swear he is soo sweet, and soo polite, and sooo respectful towards me and others, he holds the door open for me and others..he says thank you and please...I am soo lucky to have him..because the lord knows that I have been through some rough times with men...ladies I say to you when you find HIM hold on..treat that man good..treat him right..do right by him..make him feel like king..try not to make him feel like less of a man...

I truly love my man...anyone else feel the same...hola

My boyfriend....gosh I love him?
Try not to be moody and accidentally dump him in your moment of insecurity. You preach, but do you practice what you preach?!?! Hang on to him by giving him lots of sex and lots of good food.



You will probably screw it up in the end though. You will keep demanding more and more from the guy because he is a nice guy, and pretty soon, you will be uncontrollable and insatiable, and you will get moody and dump him and find out that you messed up your life real good.



Like you said, make sure you hang on to him and please him because you are lucky to not be screwed up in the head like most women to be able to appreciate what you have now.
Reply:You're lucky. I thought I had a guy like...seemed too good to be true though and it was. I hope things continue to go well with you too....everyone deserves that.
Reply:Congratulations! I'm so happy for you, my guy is pretty good too. Hang on to him! Merry Christmas and God Bless both of you.


The best birthday ever!?

This morning when I woke up, my husband had a beautiful card waiting for me, along with a Starbucks insulated coffee cup, because he knows how much I LOVE my Starbucks. Then, I had lunch with my girlfriends, who gave me a nice bottle of wine. My parents had flowers delivered to me at work, and my stepdaughter texted me to say Happy Birthday. Hubby's taking me to dinner tonight, where I'll get my 'real' gift. :)



So, what was your best birthday ever??

The best birthday ever!?
Happy Birthday!!!!



My best birthday ever is October 9th every year, when I count my blessings that I'm alive, happy, healthy, have a great family, friends, a nice home and a job I like with people I enjoy working with.



I spend my birthday every year celebrating how truly fortunate I am.
Reply:my best birth was my wort i had a party at my house my bday is on july fourth my cousins came and 2 of my cousins their friends came but the biggest problem was my best friend did not come but you know even worse then that i was nt going t go to school with her anymore but i till had fun e played games a gave away prizes and i got a lot of presents it was a bbq and i loved it

btw happy birthday
Reply:it is my brithday


Name for project/organization?

I need a clever name for a project I am doing. Basically, we are getting flowers donated and having kids make cards for different organizations and forming a group of volunteers to deliver them to hospitals and senior centers . Help, please ? :) Preferably, a name that that is something memorable? Thanks!

Name for project/organization?
how about "crafting cures" =P
Reply:How about "Something Memorable" - I think you already had it!
Reply:Hello How about. (Jesus loves you)Why cause Jesus means Hope,Liberty,Power,Ptience,Joy,Love,etc.... is what all kid wants,Happines,and every old men needs Peace. and all sick needs to hear, Hilled,and all Profetionist needs to hear ,and all in jail needs to hear too Liberty,and all women need to hear love,and csientists try to make eternity. but all of the you can find the in 3 words. (JESUS LOVES YOU.)Shalom
Reply:Flower Power


Friday, January 27, 2012

Should I wait for her.....?

Theres this girl that I met two years ago when I changed schools. Over those two years, I have really started to like her A LOT. Problem is, she's going to England for a college program, and is going to be gone for at least a year, maybe more, I'm not sure. I really like her, as I said before, and I'm serious about her, but she seems to me like the type that doesn't really want to settle down yet. I haven't told her that i like her yet, because in the past I have always been rejected by girls. So, should I wait for her or not? As for telling her that I like her, my friend had an idea to have a dozen roses delivered to her with a note attached that says "From your secret admirer", then wait and see how she reacts, and then either tell her or not. Another friend said that I should have a dozen of her favorite flowers delivered and on the note, say "I know that I may not be the strongest, smartest, or handsomest guy, but will you go out with me?". Im not sure what to do.....

Should I wait for her.....?
You have to be strong and confident! Just tell her how you feel and let things happen! Don't say you are NOT the strongest, etc. Be strong! If it doesn't work then move on. I know easier said than done, and yes it hurts bad, but it is what it is!

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Help me girls!?

About a month ago, my boyfriend [of a year and half] broke up with me. He was cheating on me. He's called me alot. He tried making plans about two weeks ago, and I was really sweet about it and said "oh..I'm really sorry, but I have plans. Maybe another time?" then a week ago he came over, so we were sitting in my kitchen just talking. Before he came he called me, so I ordered a bunch of flowers delivered from the flower shop on my corner with a little note on it to be delivered.

That came, and I was really casual about it. He was like "who sent you those?" and I just said "a friend". I know i shouldn't be messing with him like that, but I'm just about done having my fun. He hurt me alot..But the main question is, monday night me and him are going to the same party. It's casual, about 30 people at a restaraunt. I don't want him back, I just want to piss him off for cheating on me..and want me back. What should I wear? How should I do my makeup,etc.? Thanks girls :]

Help me girls!?
Kudos to you for the flower thing!! just dont overdo it, he'll know somethings up. As far as the whole dress thing, wear something that says you are single and out to have fun. Make sure your make-up makes your skin glow. Look better than you ever did with him. Hes an idiot for cheating on you. I wish you the best of luck!!
Reply:u shud luk proper HOT as 'badbtch' sed!

******

and dont even luk at him!!

just make sure ur havin fun and dont speak to him and do really nyc make-up which goes wid ur dress!!

(kinda sunkissed luk)

just dont pay attention!

and make sure ur havin LOADZ of fun!!!



gud luck!!
Reply:U need to look extra hot and don't pay him no mind at the party and if he does come up to you and try to talk, act like you have better things to do even if u dont. If u have to go to the bathroom!!

forget him. he screwed u over. so make sure u have alot of fun!!!


Present for a friend?

I'm friends with this girl who i hoped something more would happen with but since she had a boyfriend, i kept it to myself. Anyhow as a group of friends were all buying presnts for each other mostly little stuff but this friend pointed out in a conversation once that her boyfriend would never buy her flowers (not the nicest guy in the world) so i planned on getting her some flowers delivered near christmas but was just wondering if its too much or not?

I figured you know avoid anything overly romantic (e.g. red roses) but just get her some nice flowers and put something on the card like 'every girl should get flowers now and again.'

So any ideas?

Present for a friend?
awww...i totally think if you think shes worth it, you should do it. Just done continually do stuff like that cuz she will think your a stalker. GOOD LUCK!
Reply:Ummmm i dont think thats very smart unless u want conflicts... it cute but itll get you in trouble! well at least dont say every girl should get flowers.. say like to a special freind!
Reply:If that where me i would love it
Reply:I do not think you should send flowers, unless you want to start some serious problems between her %26amp; her boyfriend. How do you know that he's not the nicest guy in the world? If he is abusive you will definitely cause harm to her. Just remain a good friend and she may one day realize that the guy she is with is rally not the one for her. If you are all swapping gifts, give her a couple of movie tickets, that way

she can decide who to take, you or him..
Reply:I think you should go for it. Too many people play it safe when it comes to dating. Yeah shes dating another guy but if you go that extra mile something tells me she won't be with "not nice guy" anymore. She will def take notice. And if nothing happens at least you were true to your self and your feelings.



P.S. To avoid a major fight. Just give them to her yourself. I would advise against having them delivered.