If you had a sister that was given up for adoption before you were born would you want to know?

I found my biological parents after 26 years. My birth mother said that my brother does not know (he's 24) and that he never will know. She says my birth father is not ready to meet me yet. I have doubts that he even knows (long story). I know where they live, just 15 miles away from me. I had a card and flowers delivered to the house last Christmas with my contact information inside. My birth mother called me and said that the time was not right to meet anyone but she promised that we would not fall out of contact again. By chance I found their house listed for sale on the internet and I don't want to miss out on my last chance to go and make contact with my brother. Would it be wrong of me to make an attempt?

If you had a sister that was given up for adoption before you were born would you want to know?
I don't think it would be wrong, you're both adults, however, it may make your birth parents mad, which is something they would have to deal with. The only warning I would give, is to be ready to handle rejection, it may not be something you need to worry about, but your brother may not be as open to meeting you as you are to him. You just have to keep it in mind so that you don't end up hurt in the long run. Best of luck to you!
Reply:Go for it and do it fast! Its been long enough and you are all adults. Dont hesitate and go and meet your brother and dad.



Seems like you mother hides something. Dont let that get between you and your right to know the truth.
Reply:no

your brother has a right to know that he has a sister regardless of weather your mom wants him to or not and it is not your moms design about when a right time is (i mean is someone just died or something i dont think it would be perfect timing but besides that...)



i would defiantly tell him. and soon before he moves. if you do tell him and he dose want a relationship with you, then you should start it as soon as you can while you can still have a in person relationship. (this is assuming hes moving a good distance away and not just down the street or something.)



but yes, i would tell him. its not your moms choice or decision weather he should know.
Reply:i can feel the urge inside u to see ur biological connections. its vary normal. i would say why not. just go for it. coz u wont be able to stop thinking about it untill u see them.
Reply:Go for it, it is your right and your birth mother is being to selfish. And your brother has a right to know too. And your father also has a right to know.