How do I move on?

Just recently, I have ended my current realtionship finally. The situation was that I wanted to date other people. However, after we broke up the second time, it didnt prevent us from spending time together and doing the things that we use to do. What makes it even more difficult is that we currently work together fro right now; and 3 days after we broke up the 2nd time he had flowers delivered to the job for me. It seemed as if he wanted to win me back and convince me to stay because by us hanging out and doing what we do "actions speak louder than words and we obviously still have feelings or each other". He came over today and said we had to settle it. I told him that it would be better if we just be friends or completely moved on. I decided that we should completely move on. However, I alway find myself thinking about him. Its hard and I dont know how to start over. Any suggestions??

How do I move on?
well if you still have feelings for him then you should get back with him, but if you don't really want to be with him then you should just do things to keep you busy and keep him off ur mind
Reply:get a hobbie

or date sum1 else
Reply:I suggest that you don't just throw this relationship away because of you want to experience someone else, why? Don't you love him anymore? Are you completely over him? Do you really want someone else other than him?



You're lucky you have someone who's trying to win you back. The one i really love just left me and I can always easily say things to people but now that I just got my heartbroken- I really wish I would never go through it again. It's the hardest thing you can feel- it's longest wound that can heal- or maybe will never heal but i'm trying to cope with it day by day.



All i'm saying is treasure what you have now and take care of it. You might just regret it one day...
Reply:Keep yourself busy and involved with family and friends.

Do some volunteer work somewhere that would be of interest to you.That way,you'd help yourself and others as well.
Reply:If you really want to move on you need to stop all contact. Do not talk to him at work or outside of work. You need to make a clean break. That way it will get easier everyday. When you keep making contact and see each other just like you did when you were seeing each other...well...it would be hard to break up, so you just need to stop all contact all together.
Reply:find something to do that gets your mind off of the situation like a hobbi or somthing. every time you start to think about him start to focus on something elts.
Reply:well just be carefull. guard your heart and dont fall agian bc u miss him. Of course u miss him!!! i assume youve been together for a while . So of course youre gonna be thinking about him .. .i mean for the past how ever long youve been with him hes always been there for u. So it just takes time..... and if u are meant to be together TIME WILL TELL. but for now just go out with your friends and enjoy the trime being single!!!!