Thursday, January 26, 2012

How can i impress a girl that noes nothing about me and i nothing about her,except love at first site?

From time to time i go to my local car dealership to buy parts for my truck, and i sometimes see this girl that i am madly in love with just by looking at her and just really feeling love at first site , like she is a big missing part of my life , i over heard her talking and i sense she really is a good person , i once hinted to her that i like her , but dont want to bother her at work , i was thinking about having flowers delivered to her with a little note introducing myself and see what happens?



any advice would be awsome i have been out of the dating seen for a long time so this would mean alot to me please help ladies thanks

How can i impress a girl that noes nothing about me and i nothing about her,except love at first site?
I have trouble believing you were ever in the the dating scene.



I'm not going to piece together play by play what you should do because you can click on my profile and read my archive to find that out. Read the first post I did on here, that should be all you need.



I want to address one very troubling thing here though. You are not in love. You are attracted to this woman. It is a sexual desire- not some magical spell. If a cute girl bumped into you on the street struck up a conversation and suggested you all go back to her place you would forget all about this girl, so cut the love crap.



You say you want her to be the missing part of your life. Well buddy that communicates weakness and women aren't attracted to weakness. You have to be the missing part of HER life. A man must ALWAYS take the lead if he is to attract a woman.



Sending flowers to a woman who you don't even know is CREEPY. It is supplicating and communicates that you are a man who would be honored and lucky to have a cup of coffee with her, this heavenly creature. WOMEN DON'T WANT THAT. When it comes to attraction they DON'T WANT TO BE WORSHIPED. She has done nothing to deserve flowers. When she's your girlfriend and she leaves work to drive you to the hospital because you broke your arm while battling a tiger, THEN YOU BUY HER FLOWERS.



e-mail me with questions. The ladies on here can't help you because they do not consciously understand how ATTRACTION works.



edit: I just read some of the other answers. Do EXACTLY the OPPOSITE of what Sonny said and you'll be in good shape. Sonny's advice was perhaps the worst I have ever seen a man give another man. Congratulate yourself Sonny, you win the Hand Lotion Bottle of the Night Award?.
Reply:that comment on you being a bit shallow, ignore it, I think the physical is as important as many other aspects when one is choosing a potential mate.

on to your question, I think flowers may be a bit too much, but, I mean it all depends on how you feel, if you think the flowers would go a whole lot more greater after you've talked to her a few times.

I started reading this book, and I think it may help you, but here's the gist, or jist? of it.

1. search (which you've done and found)

2. get near (which you have done, but on to the next step)

3. ice breaker - this could be anything just something to get the conversation started

4. continue the conversation (don't let things get stale!)

5. close (get her number, or set up a date)



oh snap! I just got a good idea: come after closing time, (you have to time it just right), and while looking down at the item in your hand, you come up to the store, while she's coming out and bam! you run into her, maybe not physically, but close enough to where you're shocked that the store is closed, and she notices, you look at her, and act glad to see her: "excuse me do you think you could help me out with this?" show her the item, and off you go into talking! good luck!!!

further you could say: "hey you're pretty good at this"

or "wow you sure do know alot about this item, how long have you been working here?" "you like this kind of stuff?" etc. etc. hope this helps some.
Reply:Um, girls don;t really like to be impressed. Just be yourself around her (the biggest turn on is to be casually confident, and self assertive) and never try to act like someone else, she will see through it and think you;re silly. Just go over and talk to her and start spending more time with her, and then eventually letting it slip that you've had a big crush on her for ages;-)\

goooooodluck

*glad Im not in High school anymore*sigh*
Reply:ur flower idea is fantastic



try to become friends first

then u come to know each other

then u know wat to do



but the friend becoming part is the hardest



i tell u wat to do



see,often when u see her

just give her a card,tell her to come at this place,in a coffe bar,etc

"we'll be having a chat lady"

"i have seen u for so many days

i think we can be good friends

can we atleast go out for one evening,for a cuppa coffee?"



and always be polite,and money ready when meeting her



also,always bring some flowers to impress her everytime u come to her

try to get her to talk with u soft

then when u become open friends.........

hell! u know then wat to do at another coffee meeting,dont u?

just explode the nuke bomb of ur feelings on her heart
Reply:talk to her retard. god these days people dont know crap
Reply:damn, your a bit shallow...



my advice though is just to get to know her better, then decide what would impress her.
Reply:I think flowers would be awesome. Totally flattering...



But maybe you should learn to spell before you send her a note and she sees that a grown man can't spell.
Reply:better act quickly - you'll never know how many eyes are looking at her everyday,

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