He acted on a sexual fantasy...HELP!?

My husband of 10 years made plans for a 2nd honeymoon for us. I thought it was sweet of him...at first. He made reservations at a hotel, and got flowers delivered to the room. When we arrived at the hotel, he went in to check us in, and took our luggage up to the room while he had me wait in the car with a blindfold on..because he had a surprise waiting in the room for me. He lead me to the hotel room. As soon as we entered the room, he told me to keep the blindfold on, and that he couldn't wait to make love with me. So he started to undress me, which I thought was really sexy-like the way he did it. I still had the blindfold on.....and he said he wanted me to keep it on the whole time, so I was surprised with each one of his moves. I agreed to it. After making love he took the blindfold off of me...and the surprise was 4 other men in the room VIDEO TAPING US! They played the video for me, at one point my hubby had the camera and one of the other guys was with me! YIKES!

He acted on a sexual fantasy...HELP!?
I think your the one who's having a fantasy(or wishing you were), come on! r u saying after 10y's of marrage and making love to the same man you really couldn't tell the difference between him and a stranger ?....oh please !!!!
Reply:i would make it my personal life goal to make his life hell on earth..there wouldnt be a hole deep enough or a mountain high enough and he better have a damn good lawyer and he better have the 1 and only copy of the tape which would be handed to me by the judge and i would make sure that he never EVER touched me or had anything to do with me again
Reply:sounds like a secxual fantasy of urs..
Reply:you like making up story's don't you?
Reply:First off... I hope this is a joke. If it isn't then wtf!!! Who did you marry? This is illegal on SO many levels. You were raped... I would take the tape and as embarrassing as it is... turn it in. Your husband is a freakin disgusting human being. I hope you arent in the same building as him right now. You need to kick his a** out until the divorce papers are signed and his a** is in jail...

This seriously nausiated me. If my husband did this he would be buried in the backyard somewhere by now. Ugh. Respect yourself please. Don't be a doormat like so many other women. Better yet, give me his address. haha. I'll take care of the waste of space...
Reply:You seek help, OK:

See you get the tape(=proof and do it quickly) and take legal advice(solicitor) he needs treatment or a divorce.

He took in a very bad way advantage and it's a reason to divorce.
Reply:And you had no idea that four other men were in the room? If this is the case then I find it suspicious.. especially the changing of the men to have sex with you. I also find it strange that this would be your first post to this board and you don't sound alarmed about it.

A sexual fantasy you say? Well apparently this has been talked about.. and obviously this is no big deal to you.

It certainly would be to me. The word wouldn't be "yikes". It would be "divorce".

So what exactly is your question?
Reply:No freakin way!!!!

Have you ever indicated that this would interest you? If not, then I'd burn the tape and kick his ***.
Reply:sh!t, i like this fantasy! your husband was not right for taping you without your knowledge though. plus did you even know the other men? your husband was definitely out of place for letting another man dip in his cookie jar. i dont know what your man was thinking with all that!
Reply:Girl, and your problem is?????

Have him call my husband ASAP!!!!!!!



I need some of that!
Reply:Um, only one person should be commenting on this, and that is you. If you enjoyed it, thanks for sharing the story. If you did not, you should be talking to him and deciding what to do with your future.
Reply:I would be furious and that's putting it mildly. I'd be sleeping in the other bedroom for a while to give him time to think about what he did. I'd burn that tape in front of him and tell him he needs to get on his knees and apologize for embarrassing you like this.



That is just plain tacky !!!
Reply:Tell me your kidding and this is a joke.When I got to the part

of you taking off your blindfold I just couldn't believe it and you sat there and watch it with other man. No frickin way is this real. If it is you are going to divorce this man for doing this to you right.
Reply:I am so sorry this is good way to sell flowers
Reply:Holy freaking crap. I almost can't believe that. I'm just going to be honest.... what a freaking *$($(#*%%26amp;....... have you EVER indicated that you would want that? You know what.... it doesn't matter.. unless you were like... "hey, honey... why don't you $*$* me with a bunch of dudes taping and watching... and while you are at it.... why don't you let them #*#*# me" That is sooo messed up.... that is traumatizing... get rid of him...... I would even consider legal action...... you did not consent to sex with this other man. I am so sorry. You might consider getting some professional help.
Reply:I might be old fashioned but what a pig! As far as the other guy I call this rape.
Reply:Sounds like you were not angry about what happened. just confused. If my husband did that to me I would kick his a** and ask questions later.
Reply:You're lying to yourself and to the Yahoo's community. The motions of your man can't be duplicated. You were caught up with the fantasy also.
Reply:The tape makes a great bit of evidence for your divorce lawyer.
Reply:Either



1) you knew what was going on, how could you not know that there was more than one person in the room. You can feel when something's up... shame on you.



or



2) you need to leave him today.
Reply:I would drop-kick him.
Reply:Well, you never really asked a question...you just used the word "Help" to get the attention of people to read this cock-n-bull story. What kind of help do you need? Mental? Cause you and him are into this kinky type of stuff and I suspect you just wanted to put some shock into YA.



Hope ya didn't catch some little critters along the way.
Reply:That is absolutely horrific. No excuses, horrific, horrible. That is also rape by the way, you never consented to sex with that other man. The fact that your husband would ever subject you to that is nauseating. Please, please, please, respect yourself enough to get out of this before it gets any worse.
Reply:Divorce the pervert before you find out more about his secret life, it will sicken you even more!!!!
Reply:He violated your rights and is a disgusting perve. I cant believe he didnt ask you first! YOu could and should have him charged.

Who were the other men?

That is so gross.

I'd kill him. What a pig
Reply:yikes super!!!

is he out of his mind doing that thing???and the nerve!he did to you as his wife??what the S*** came into his mind???
Reply:you got duped.



i dont actually see a question here...



idiot