Monday, January 30, 2012

Being kept on a string?

Met this woman recently. Used to see her 2-3 times a week. Our paths no longer cross nor should they ever, except we agreed to stay in touch. The only tie I have to her is her cell phone. Lately she's been harder to communicate with since she is 'so busy'. She e-mails apologies to me when she doesn't call. She says she will try to call, but she rarely does. I am so close to saying to her to please stop sayng you're going to call, and just call! Her apologies are driving me crazy. I've never asked her to call, she offers, then she flakes and the cycle repeats itself. I feel I'm wasting my time. Yesterday, I had flowers delivered to her, never got a thank you call until I called her! She was busy (single mom). I am considering just fading away. I wonder why she hasn't just said she's not interested. I mean I have made my intentions clear. Am I wasting time? I am becoming impatient and disinterested. I am 13 years older than her: she knows I like her but we haven't talked about feelings.

Being kept on a string?
"Single Mom, Working and running a Family" FRIENDS! you need to give her some room. Stringing you along "I Really Doubt It!" Back Off, Give her some Time.



Question; Have you ever been a Single Parent? "I have". Not Easy but you do what you can for the Kid(s) and for yourself when you can! Even through it Hurts Sometimes Personal Relationships have to Wait sometimes. I was a Single Parent for 5 Years before I had time to get into a personal life again after my kids were grown. Most times it's harder for the Ladies, Give Her Room and Time! If it's meant to work it Will.
Reply:just let her go? i mean, what else can you do? i mean, that's no way to treat someone. if she's going to be like that now, wait till later when you're in a relationship with her (if thats at all possible). she'll drive you mad!
Reply:It sounds like you're being kept on the backburner..she obviously isn't interested anymore, and she's too shy to actually say it straight up, she's giving you the hint..soo I suggest you just take it, and walk away.


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