Should I ask this girl out to Valentines day dinner?

Hi,



I have been talking to a girl since about November. We have met up a few times (movie, lunch, dinner, hike) but due to her work committments I have not seen her in over a month.



I would like to take her to Valentines day dinner but I am not sure where we stand. I have not kissed her but she knows that I like her. She is away on a trip until Wednesday so should I call her on her trip or wait till Thursday and pop the question to go to dinner with me?



What about flowers and such? Do girls like that or does that seem like too much as in wanting attention? Should I leave the flowers at her door or bring them to her if and only if she accepts dinner invitation? Or should I just hand deliver the flowers to her and ask her to dinner then? I won't get any balloons that speak of LOVE or things like that. Its too early to be speaking those powerful words I think.



I am 37 and she is 27.

Should I ask this girl out to Valentines day dinner?
YES! call her now and ask her. As for the flowers bring them on the date once she accepts. Or.. you could have the flowers sent, with a card that asks her to go out with you on V-day.. that would be sweet, I'd deffinatly go on the date with a guy if he sent flowers, BUT i wouldnt deliver them yourself and ask.. in case she doesnt want to go, she might feel obligated. GOOD LUCK shes lucky to have you putting the effort to try and do it the right way
Reply:Call her asap. Somebody might ask her out first and your a gonner. Girls love flowers.
Reply:ofcource girls like flower, but i think u better get some thing wht she likes with it. its better u dont call her. u just go to her house on thursday n give flowers n a gift. if u have guts u just hug n kiss her bravely. but dont forget to propose her after kissing, or else she may kick u..........
Reply:omg, thats so sweet. I think you should go for it, why not? girls absolutely loooooove flowers...wanting attention...what? : _ ) Seriously though, ask her out to dinner ahead of time like tomorrow and then take her flowers or whatever other thing you'd like to give her. Keep it simple and sweet, no balloons. Maybe next year?



Good luck!
Reply:CUUUUUUUUUUTE! ask her out.! flowers are definitely not too much! Roses are so generic though. choose another kind.
Reply:aw how nice. maybe if she doesn't have any plans you should. Girls like it when you bring flowers to them and romantic stuff that happens
Reply:just ask her
Reply:Yes ,I think you should ask her,if you like her,women like confident men. This may be the start of something joyus for you. Flowers are good choice. Find out meaning of colours.

Red=passion Yellow=Friendship Purple=beauty
Reply:yes, I think you should ask her... and personally give her the flowers and chocolates then ask her. Anything that comes up to your mind will do, often times, actions do more magic than words. GOODLUCK~!!!
Reply:AWWWWWWWWW YES ASK HER ASK HER!!!! Call her asap and ask her though so you give her plenty of notice. If she says yes, you should bring her flowers, that won't be too much! Don't hand deliver them and ask her though, that would surprise her and make her feel pressured! Yes, too early for love balloons! Good luck!
Reply:yeah and if she isn't putting out then, there's always the date rape drug. :-))
Reply:yes
Reply:I would ask her out before she leaves or soon. Get an answer early to schedule reservations and stuff or at least know where you stand. If she says yes, then get her a small rose or some small bouquet (ill go for a rose). Nothing big because you havent kissed her and also because big scares girls away (they think you're desperate). Find a nice place (not too fancy, good lighting, quiet) and a rose with good conversation. If it goes well, dont let so much time go in between and move faster, at least one date a week.