Thursday, February 9, 2012

Ladies point of view please?

i met this girl in college 2 years ago, At that time i had a big crush on her and I still do, so i sent flowers on her birthday two years ago. , but i dint have my name on them she called me and thanked me for the flowers at that time, But nothing serious happened between us, we took a few courses together after we met, Recently she told me that she thinks i am cute, and that she had a crush on me the first day of class but she had to stop after learning that i was a Muslim. Couple day ago i was online and she asked me when my birthday was, i told her that it passed, and she asked me if i was going to send her flowers for her birthday, I was like how about red roses this time, and she told me that she likes Pink roses. .And she invited me to her b-day party which was yesterday, so I went and she was there with 3 other girls no boys, she was nice to me, then after the club, I was driving home and I text messaged her “saying text me when you get home please”. Then she responded an hour later saying that “I am home, thank you for being there, Gosh too bad we are different religions otherwise I would date u”. I didn’t ask her for a date or anything. Is she trying to tell me something? This was the only time we actually hung out, out of class and I had not seen her in a while. But we have always been keeping in touch over msn. What should i do? Her roses will be delivered today with a message saying

“I saw these roses and, even though they were beautiful, nothing can compare to the beauty i see in you”. Was sending the roses a mistake? Is she telling me to stay away from her by getting religion involved? I didn’t ask her if she would like to date me.

Ladies point of view please?
Well of course she would LIKE to date but obviously religion means a lot to her. I personally don't see any reason not to date someone just because they are of a diff religion...to each his own I guess. The roses were a little presumptuous I think...nice thought just a little too forward so early in the game.
Reply:the roses arent a mistake that was nice....



but if could be that she is not allowed to date outside her religon... not that jus doesnt want to
Reply:She likes you. I think she might want you to ask her out. She's trying to say that she likes you, your nice but she might want you to change a little for her. The roses were a good idea. It was really nice of you to put on the *message*
Reply:she obv cant understand tht 2religions can meet

i think ur time wastin
Reply:well the thing with the religion and all that is her parents may have found out about your religion and told her not to date you but if you like her ask her out
Reply:Why don't you just come out and ask her? Seems to be the easiest way to find out. If you are nervous about it ask her on msn. Good luck.
Reply:thats a hard one.... what religion is she? can u or her not date other religions?



i would say if u really like her, and are fine with dating her... then go for it, but make it funny, tell her what my religion dont know wont hurt... idk, dont actually say that, but something like that..ya know?



and btw... i think she was hinting you about the dating, so just think about... some girls like to be chased, i think its complete bull$hit, and dumb... u either like each other or ya dont...

if she dosnt go on the date b/c of religion, u know where ya stand.



good luck.
Reply:she wants to date u and if u do too u should tell her tht it doesnt matter what religion u are that u still can be together
Reply:I think she wants you to do something, like when you're messagin her on msn or if you call her ask her out, seriously or just tell her it won't be a date you'll just go out, and just keep being persistent, i think the roses are good they'll probably make her a lil confused with all those conflicting emotions and she might give you a chance, yeah i really think if you keep being persistent she'll start dating you.
Reply:lol -- very funny situation i was in as well -- i am christian and dated a moslem girl -- her parents where always against her dating out side her religion -- in the end they will always win -- 2 weeks after i asked her 2 be my girlfriend she breaks up with me due to her parents stupid religious beliefs --
Reply:go for the worst she can say is no.. and if she does then you know its only because of religion...... you have nothing to loose...


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