Relationship Question?? women ages 30 and up plz?

im dating this girl that got out of some bad relationships.. we have been dating about a month. we get along great but she said she cannot trust her feelings yet and still wants to date.. we have talked and/or seen each other everyday since we started talking.. recently i thought i was maybe coming on too strong so i slowed down a little and gave her some space this week.. my question is what do i get her for her b day its coming up .. i have done the flowers thing and its prob all the same as what her past relationships did .. i was thinking a happy b day teddybear delivered to her work... what do you think? women 30 and up plz she is 30 and im 27... please comment on situation and gift idea thx .. also if you care to know more and wanna talk about it on im im open to that too i could use some advise thx

Relationship Question?? women ages 30 and up plz?
No Don't do that... For Real... Just show up at her door with a single rose... if you guys have backed off and got some space she might think it is too much for a teddy bear delivered at HER WORK....
Reply:get her somthing that says u love her and you would never hurt her
Reply:After dating for only a month I think I would like to be taken out to a very nice dinner and then to listen to some live music rather than receive a "gift".
Reply:Whatever you do, do not get her a teddy bear, if you wanna keep her!
Reply:Just keep doing what you're doing. Don't try to move things along to fast. If you take things slowly she will get to see over time that you aren't going to hurt her.



As for a gift, you haven't been dating that long. I suggest something like take her to a nice restaurant and then find something to do afterward like a carriage ride and then give her a single red rose.



Try to be romantic. Be sweet. But don't give her anything like jewelry and no Teddy Bear!
Reply:I like your idea. One thing I can tell you is that a woman wants to get something that says you know what they like and want. Myself, I'm a lot more simple. Something like a night out for dinner at my favorite restaurant, or something that I have been really wanting. Anything that says my significant other knows and/or understands me makes me very happy. The teddy bear with some words from one heart to another is great too!
Reply:I know what she is going through. I just got out of a bad relationship and I have just met someone and I have trust issues too. You are going to have to give her time, but also remember. You might just end up being her rebound guy and not end up with her after all said and done! Start out slow and take your time!