Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Why hasn't he asked me out?!?! ten points easy!?

He is so sweet and he calls me baby and I call him sexi and he always writes me notes. He texts me every night and once he freaked me out over text, so the next day he apologized repeatedly (to the point where it was still sweet, but kind of annoying.)



He tells me he thinks i'm the best dancer on the high school dance squad, He constantly says how pretty I look, and he sits with me every day at lunch.



He walks with me in the halls, and even bought flowers for the school valentines fundraiser to be delivered to me during sixth period on Valentine's day. He is always saying how I'm his baby and how i'm so pretty and how he always wants to see me and be there beside me.







So why hasn't he asked me out?

Why hasn't he asked me out?!?! ten points easy!?
Did he just get out of a relationship? Have you told him about the way you feel has he ever asked? If he has, I'd say he would be really into going out. Just keep waiting it out and let him know you are interested by the things you say and do. Ask him if you can't wait.
Reply:He is probably waiting for you to come to him and ask. Most boys are shy too and if you do say no then he will total embarrassing himself. So, your best choice is to ask him. Hope you pick me for best answer...
Reply:Walk up to him and say "Why haven't you asked me out?"
Reply:Maybe he just figures you guys are a couple. I mean, you act like it. Just tell him you want to know if he thinks of you as his girlfriend. Just as an aside, make sure he isn't just keeping his options open. It doesn't sound like it, but you don't need to get hurt either.
Reply:This could be because he is not allowed to date yet. Or this could be because he is to scared to ask you out. Or he can be just waiting to hook up with you. If you feel comfortable with it, talk to him about a relationship. If he doesn't want one, kick him in the crotch and storm off, flipping you hair has you turn.
Reply:worry about school, put thought into that..
Reply:I think he thinks that he made it clear to you that he wants to go out with you so if you want to go out with him bad enofe to put this on line you beter ask him out .
Reply:maybe he already thinks you two are together... maybe by calling you baby and doing all that stuff for you, it is implyed that you are together...



simple solution... ask him whats up with you two :)



Good Luck!
Reply:he is just scared
Reply:maybe he doesnt want ur relationship with him to get all weird...
Reply:cause he is SOFT. tell him to harden the f""" up
Reply:I'm not sure what you mean by "ask out". Do you mean, why hasn't he asked you to be his girlfriend? Or why hasn't he asked you on a date? Or both? Maybe he already considers you his girl... sounds like it. Maybe he's scared to, just ask him yourself... obviously he's comfortable around you! How sweet. I'm sure he likes you, y'all just need to have a real talk. Since you re in high school maybe he's still not allowed, or maybe hes working up to it.
Reply:I'm surprised. Maybe...

He heard someone say "never cheat on a girl" and then.....

he sees how beautiful another girl is.....

but he still wont ask you out because if he gets caught....

He's a dick



This might not be true but...

just ask him out
Reply:Because, Hes EXTREMLY Nerveous from what your telling me. If Hes that nerveous than Just tell him how you fell. most guys are like this. or you never know he could be saving it 4 a right moment (like valentines day) or he wants to build a strong foundation before yall both go out%26gt; So i Hope this helps best of luck 4 you! you never know he could be asking the same thing!
Reply:He's waiting for you to ask him because he's too shy to do it himself and he's probably scared that you might not want him. Go for it!
Reply:if i was him and was doing the same thing, there is only one reason. you not the only one. I am seeing my ex who i treat like my girlfriend and i know she wants me to ask her out again but i don't because i am also seeing someone else. if she is not my girl, she has no right to ask me where or who am i going out with... get it... he has someone else..
Reply:do you want him to maybe he is just assuming you are already together, guys are not usually good with words, they are better with actions so I really would not worry about it , if you like him just stick with him
Reply:why dont you ask him- since you are so close to him

to me, it seems you are already an item...true intimacy

is when you are comfortable enough to share your thoughts

together....why dont you just ask him where things are going

because Valentines Day is coming up- and you want to know



or...maybe he is waiting to ask you on that day
Reply:Maybe he thinks ur already going out!?!... or maybe he's shy/embarrassed
Reply:Guess he would rather flirt than pay for a date...What is the baby and sexi stuff? Your not his baby..and you don't really know if he is sexi unless you notice just the outer qualitites of him..I would usually never say this as I believe a guy should ask the girl out..but will make a exception this one time..Ask him if would like to come over 1 saturday afternoon to watch a dvd and have lunch...see what he says..
Reply:maybe he is nervous.
Reply:He is shy? Ask him out.
Reply:He sounds kinda soft, but yeah he likes you if hes going all out like that.
Reply:He's nervous. Why don't you make the first move?
Reply:he's a wimp. ask him out!
Reply:This is easy.....ASK HIM



while you all are joking around or right after he compliments you....just say: well if i'm your baby and you think i'm cute...why haven't you asked me out?



whatcha think about that?
Reply:This guy is definitely lacking in self-confidence. He is afraid of you saying NO.



Why don't you indirectly ask him out? Like wouldn't it be nice if we went to XYZ on Friday.
Reply:Maybe he is waiting for you to ask him out. Guys are shy, so he could be waiting for you to ask him. Or maybe he will ask you out on Valentine's day when you get your flowers.
Reply:No real answer for that one. Just don't rush perfection. The longer your "friendship" with this guy lasts the more you actually know if you want to be with this person.
Reply:well there 1-ask him out

2-maybe his shy to ask u out
Reply:why don't you ask him out?


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