Send or not to send and why ..?

I dated this guy for almost half a year. In the end, he left me un-noted. We're still talking like just friends. He still says that he misses me online and so forth and so do I. I wanted to send him a flower and a card for his bd next week (have someone deliver it to his workplace). I consider this present as not only a birthday present but also the apology as well cause when I dated him, I broke up with him muliple times. I feel regrettful cause of it. Though I still hate him for leaving me without saying anything and I am nice enough to still talking to him like a friend. I'd like to show him that there's really someone who really likes him. Am I wrong? We spoke mostly on AIM after the breakup and I asked him once if he already has a girlfriend , he said "no, still waiting". I'm slightly confused.

Send or not to send and why ..?
leave him alone, haven't you done enough?

He will only try to hurt you back, by the way.

Be prepared
Reply:I am just wondering...why be prepared? for what? Report It
Reply:Yeah send him the flower, if you don't want to go out with him though make it clear, otherwise you'll be sending him mixed messages.
Reply:Maybe not the flower. Most men aren't real fond of having flowers delivered to them, let alone, to their work place. I think your heart is in the right place. Just no flowers. The card is still a great idea. Good luck.
Reply:he didnt need to leave a note. your games broke his heart. i always tell my friends that if something is important enough to them then they can fix it. i dont know why you kept on walking out on him but you did and that is just toying around with him. if you want to be friends then go the friend route. if you want to be more then you are required to get rid of the games. he will respond badly to them and you will force him to break your heart. i guess your actions will break your own heart. figure out what you want and make sure to be honest and do not jerk his chain. he will be reluctant to be anything other than friend to you until you prove yourself
Reply:talk to him about it
Reply:i think you two should call it quits and have the flower be like a i'm sorry for everything then you might have to drop him out of your life since you two can't help but hurt eachother he hurts you then you hurt him it wont end very pleaslantly but it might be for the best

best of luck!
Reply:Just send a card. You two are in too much of a mixup to confuse it more with a flower.
Reply:Why u always want to say BROKE UP? if u get marry, u will really end up in this stage....curb yourself before come out this word!!!!